Imtiyaz

Actually saya suka ngelat ( eh betul ka perkataan yang digunakan,org Penang tak reti guna perkataan ngelat ni) kalau kena buat tag...tag dari Bed ni pun peram dah nak masuk sebulan..ampun ye Bed,ni aku buat ok..Jom layannn..

1. first time jumpa with your hubby, bila and kat mana?
masa matrik thn 2000, dalam meeting ( skemanya..hahahha)

2. love at first sight?
for him yes, eh ni tag utk aku,p describe pasal husband pulak... for me no...well, we were in the
meeting kan..tak sempat nak 'sight seeing' sebeb meeting Biro Agama...tak sesuai :)

3. who is he when the first time you meet him?
a matrix student

4. how long it takes for him to ask you out of a date?
no such things...

5. first place dating?
n/a

6. how he proposed?
nak kata proposed betul-betul tak la jugak..takde la macam orang " will you marry me"..kitorg
terus je bincang bila nak kwin..

7. special date with your hubby?
19 Feb 2007, tarikh nikah

8. changes that he asked you to do?
not really a change , cuma tolong masak pedas skit,sebab kami sekeluarga memang tak makan
pedas, so bila dah kawin ni baru la start membeli cabai burung la, cili padi la..kalau tak, tak
layan...but still masak tak berapa pedas..tak buleh la abang...hihih

9. what is about him that you love so much?
everything

10. what is about him that you wish he would like change?
I still can tolerate , so far not much.


11. you will lose your mine and crack your head when he?
kita tanya, tapi takde jawapan..padahal dia mendengar

12. you will smile through your eyes for the whole day when he?
he make me smiles everyday..enough said

13. complete below sentences 'my love towards my hubby is as big as..'
I just unable to compare..is too huge

14. nak pass tag ni kepada siapa?
takde kot..mesti ramai dah buat...

Bila tau saja Yatie Chomeyl buat giveaway pasal Kisses Of Love, di mana meletakkan gambaq cium pipi, lantas saya teringat beberapa gambar SI yang dicium pipinya oleh abi.Malangnya bila digodek-godek, takde pulak gambar ummi yang cium SI.

Berangan nak slowly buat entry pasal contest ni sbb due dia lambat lagi .tapi bila online malam ni, tengok-tengok si Yatie ni dah percepatkan tarikh tutup pulak atas sebab-sebab tertentu. boleh baca update terbaru Yatie di sini.

Makanya saya terpaksa rempit mengodek gambar berkenaan dan otak saya ligat berfikir apa yang akan saya ceritakan tentang gambar itu.

Godek punya godek, ada la gambaq SI yang dicium pipi oleh abi tercinta ketika menjengah usia 2 bulan. Ummi masih lagi dalam pantang.
*Arrggghh..geli la misai abi*

Bila ditenung kembali gambaq lama ni, apa yang membuatkan ummi suka ialah gambaq ini ditangkap pada suatu hari, selepas asar, bilamana abi dan SI bersantai di laman rumah TokNgah..Abi tak habis-habis 'kiss' SI .ni baru satu, ada lagi 5 keping waktu yang sama.Kira sessi possing cium anak je la. Abi punya la feeling kiss anak. Tengok la reaksi SI masa abi kiss dia.Sampai ternganga mulut dengan kepala yang bersih bercukur. Licin!

Ummi ingat lagi waktu tu, abi sangat excited.Almaklumlah anak pertama kan.Asyik dukung SI ke sana ke mari, asyik kiss SI setiap waktu. Pernah ummi tunjuk gambaq ni kat ofismate ummi, depa katanya.. excitement anak pertama..hehehe.

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I am the busy mother bee this 2 weeks !! Is quite some time I do not update any new entry and only able to bloghop during weekend. Apologize to my dear friends if there is no babble from me on your page .


What make me so buzy.. ( Bunyi sibok mengalahkan PM.) . The foremost reason is because SI’s abi is not around. So I have to handle everything by myself ( again bunyi macam handle byk keja) . Doing housechores, cooking, fetching SI from babysitter’s house . The most hardship that I have to face is when fetching her back from babysitter’s house.

Normally, abi is the one who fetch her. While me rushing back home to cook. With abi is not around, I have to take it up. And SI is growing wise and wiser. ( Ummi nak bebel sikit ni ) Sekarang dah pandai takmau balik…jenoh nak pujuk… kekadang ummi terawal SI tak mandi lagi..dok p jalan2, main dengan anak jiran..kadang2 tengah tidor…. Tanak pakai diaper lepas mandi…itu semua ragam anak yang tengah membesar.. memang menguiji kesabaran sungguh
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Then I know the challenge that faced by abi everyday.That is why both of them come home late But abi and ummi is different. Ummi has to rush back home cooking. And dinner has to be ready before maghrib . Other house chore can be done with SI except cooking…memang surrender. Everysince ummi has to fetch her back, sometimes we reached after 7 and ummi skip cooking dinner.As a result, paksu has to buy dinner .

And now since she started to talk ..she always mention t*t*k when she want nenen..ayoo.yoo..nak tidor t*t*k, bagun pagi t*t*k… am not sure from where she got the words. I knew that the babysitter taught her about parts of body. She know all parts including t*t*k…now she direct feeding frequency is increase..ait, ingat ka semakin hampir nak wean off dah, tapi makin laju…

Now I am entering a phase of facing a smart & active toddler. She is cheeky though. I can sense the difficulty when both of us go for outing. I thought she is still small baby . Quietly behave. Now..jenoh kepong., jenoh ajak balik, jenoh tegur jangan pegang, usik barang……

All these are reason for a smile on my face when I reflect it back yet sometimes she drive me mad and exhausted. My tiredness gone when look at her face. She keep silence when I am mad, she persuade and wipe my tears me when I cry and laugh when I am happy

Tu baru anak sorang.. pun rasa tunggang langgang dah .Macamna anak 2-3 noo..?? Now I understand and appreciate the life of a mother. Is not easy . I pray hard for Allah to grant me with big patience in nurturing my kids and in my role as a mother and wife.

I am handicap without abi. Abi..cepatla balik… We both miss u.

A very quick entry in the morning. Just wanna wish Happy Father's Day to :

Both me and Shukrina were down with fever last weekend. But mine is even worse. ( sampai muntah baru ringan skit kepala and sampai hari ni suara macam Ratu Rock) ). While Shukrina’s still active ‘merry go round ‘ in the house until sweating and she recovered very fast (within a day ) compared to me.

On Sunday without abi around and a having a guest at home, I was juggling between house chores, cooking and taking care of her. Luckily the guest (my brother’s fren ) is ‘tak kisah’ . Budak baru baik demam ni memanjat sana sini dan nak asyik berdokong.

At night, I just cannot tahan after took ubat batuk and selsema… zzzz. But midnight this lil' princess started to create havoc. She cried loudly ( meraung) as if sakit yang amat2. I offered her my B but she refused. From cradle to bed to toto..semua KO.

Not only screaming with eyes closed, she was actively 'meronta' and climb on my shoulder. I have to hold her tightly as she bends her body down. I had no energy. I passed to abi but she rejected both abi and her tokba. We were thinking perut masuk angin kot.. applied an ointment onto her body but still she screamed like crazy. I took out her clothes and diaper. Put her down on toto.. Dia meraung sambil berpusing2 atas toto tu..

I started to cry…panic ..never experience such case. Usually if she cried at night, I just need to offer her to BF then she will be ok. But not this night.

She would never reject if tokba offer to dokong her but not that night.

Abi said, “ ni benda lain ni..” I suggested to bring Shukrina to our makngah’s house nearby. But abi asked me to calm down. Abi performed wudhu and recited Quran while me repeatedly recite ayatul Qursi for her . Still no change after sometimes. Tokba sapu her head with ‘air ‘ that was prepared by one of ustaz when she was baby and still keep in my house .

Then abi decided to azan. The 1^st azan, she kind of shocked but continue crying. But when 2^nd and 3^rd azan, she started to slow down and calm. Abi ‘talked’ to this makhluk asking 'it' to leave. And slowly Shukrina stopped crying by herself . Immediately she wanted abi to dokong her and communicate to abi as usual. She pointed ‘tuu’… ‘tu’… then abi said “ Abi dah halau dia dah.Dia takmai kacau Shukrina dah. Allah lindung Shukrina.”

The incident happen for about 30 minutes and Alhamdulillah, she is back to normal. She BF as usual and talk as normal. She also wants to go to tokba.

Is really a memorable incident for me as I never face all these. Not for abi , he experience observing, learned and helping few cases happened to his relatives and friend’s baby.

The part when abi communicated with this ‘makhluk’ make me feel…eh biar benar husband ku cakap gini…” but if I see some mystical drama on TV, I often listened to the dialogue such “ Pergi kau dari sini…jangan kau ganggu budak ini lagi…” , Pulang ke tempat asalmu”… “ Siapa hantar kau ke mari”.. and etc….

Luckily we did not hear any reply after abi asked ‘it’ to leave . Kalau tak mau pengsan mak. Panjang lagi la dialog abi sebenarnya..kelakar pulak rasanya..macam drama ..eh, tapi tak buleh buat main… …..

I was wondering what make (if really this ‘makhluk’ come) Shukrina screaming. Have u come across oldies advise.

“ Nak masuk rumah ada baby, jangan terus masuk , dok dulu dlm 5-10 minit kat luar “

Ada jugak

“ ludah ke belakang sebelum masuk “

“ Tanggal baju sebelum masuk’ ( kalau perempuan takkan nak tanggal jugak ?? )

Ni pesan orang2 tua kita…untuk pengiktibaran…But I always forget to stay a while before step in ..main terjah je, excited nak tengok baby ( mine or others ) . Same to abi..

Flashed back looking for reason , both of us just stayed at home on Sunday (me down fever) while abi away from morning till reached home about maghrib time that day and terus terjah masuk peluk Shukrina…can it be a reason ? Balik maghrib2…I dunno….

Whatever it is..all are from Allah… our fear and surrender is only for Allah.

May Allah always protect us

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1)Tempat pertemuan anda dan suami utk pertama kalinya …
1st time jumpa masa meeting .(skemanya..hihi)

2) Pandangan peribadi anda terhadap sikap atau ciri2 pada dirinya ketika mula2 berkenalan…
Tak amik pot sgt pun ciri2 dia masa tu…lagipun tgh meeting

3) Tempat ‘dating’ di mana dia meluahkan perasaan pada anda …
No dating

4) Jika anda masih ingat, ayat yg dia gunakan ketika meluahkan perasaannya …
Takde ayat luah perasaan la..( tak romantiknyeee..ngee), he just straight forward on his intention.

5) Berapa lama hubungan anda hingga ke jinjang pelamin?
Hubungan..? Kalau dikira dari waktu saya ditakdimkan sampai kawin adalah dalam 4 tahun lebih kot.

6) Berapa lama usia perkahwinan anda sekarang?
2 tahun 2 bulan 10 hari

7) Kejutan yg pernah dia buat pada anda …
Dalam semua kejutan, yang paling terkejut dan mengejutkan bilamasa saya ditnya sudikah menjadi pasangan hidupnya.. I don’t expect as we never talk to each other before

2ndly, dia buat saya pregnant..hahaha

8) Perancangan anda dan dia dlm rumahtangga …
Sila refer buku perancangan keluarga kami.heheh

9) Bagaimana dia melayani karenah anak2 ?
Sebagai seorang abi, penuh kasing sayang yg lemak berkrim ..heheh

10) Hubungan suami anda dengan keluarga sebelah anda
Superb

Nak tag sapa..tadak kot sbb macam ramai dah jawab