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Thursday, April 30, 2009

Mama , I miss U

16 September 1982
Kau dianugerahkan darjah kebesaran yang membawa gelaran "MAMA".
Tatkala kau bertempur sama ada hidupmu sebaagai muslimah atau matimu sebagai syahidah..Bukan kerana Gelaran itu
Gelaran yang aku mula kenal setelah beberapa purnama menjengah dunia
Mana mungkin aku mengilustrasi kisah yang hampir 19 tahun yang lalu
tetapi Kau ibarat penglipulara tatkala membicarakan zaman kecilku
Walau kesat tanganmu tidak membesarkanku sepenuhnya kerana keluar mencari rezeki
Siapa jua anak itu, dia tetap anak ibunya

Mama,
Aku mengerti kenapa kami dilarikan
Kau ingin kami keluar dari bayangan warisan
Menjadi abid yang soleh yang mendoakan mama & papa
Kami mula mengatur langkah, seribu gaya
membuktikan pada mereka,kami adalah mutiara yang tidak ternilai
Semakain digilap, semakain terserlah kilauannya bak neon di jalanan
Semakin sengit maya mencabar realiti, begitu jualah mehnah dan tribulasai yang Kau tempuhi
Percayalah Mama
Percaya pada Nusrah al-Wahab, percaya pada insan bernama suami
JUga kehadiran Taufik dan Hidayah di sisi..

This poem was written by me in 2000 to join one competition organized by HELWA of MPP ( Hal Ehwal Wanita – Majlis Perwakilan Pelajar ) ocnjunction with Mother's Day Celebration . I participated for fun because I knew that I have no skill in writing poem .

I never bother what is the prize would be as I have no confident in writing poem. As mentioned, just for fun, I submitted and forgot about it until I received a call saying that I won the 1st prize. The committee help to remind me on the poem contest that I’ve joined. I was bit surprised. Menang..tak sangka pulak.. Sempat tanya, siapa yang judge ni.The judges were Expert from our Pusat Bahasa .

A day later the 3 winners were called to receive a short briefing on the prize giving ceremony. One of the committee told me that lucky I was the winner. Why ? because their 1st prize besides a bouquet of flower, trophy, hamper from brand of ubat2 traditional ( I forgot the manufacturer), all kind of balm ( balm gamat, balm serai, minyak angin, minyak panas etc), a parker pen and my poem is nicely framed – The organizer would sponsored the winner’s mother come to the ceremony regardless from where she is ( even Sabah&Sarawak). So by having me as the winner, they save hundreds ringgit allocated for MAS ticket in case the winner is from West Malaysia ( I stayed nearby-but still over the sea la). The organizer also excited to know who is the winner after received from Pusat Bahasa judges and of course the judges did not know from where the contestants were . (They don’t bother actually )

1st runner up goes to a friend of mine , Nik Khartina from School of Mass Comm. She was one of journalist for our campus bulletin and was a journalist with Dewan Kosmik ( her 1st job after grad) and now I lost her contact. Not sure whether still with Kosmik or not. Tina’s mother also was sponsored to come all the way from Kelantan on the prize giving event. And definitely I salute her writing and love ‘em so much. I used to read her writing in her blog .

On the day, my mom was invited by the committee from home( before come they enjoyed chocolate cake baked by mama and mama prepared ahead a big container of cakes for the committee ). I was invited to recite my poem ( malu siot masa tu, mana pernah dok deklamasi depan orang) and my mom was invited to the stage to receive souvenir and flower too.

Mama loved this poem very much and to her surprise that I can write this.If you read this, may sounds ‘apa punya poem ni’ but to both me and mama the meaning of the poem is more than words can say.


Why I write this entry. 30 April was my mama’s birthday and she is not here to celebrate it. I believe humans will write/say all the good things about our beloved mom.I can write if I want here but is not the message I want to convey in this entry. I think I will have at least another 20 years to live and repeatedly thank her and express how wonderful she is to me but she left me when I was 25. Some people, even lost their mom when they were small.

Dear friend,go and say it to your mother before is too late..

You never know how jealous I am looking at you still having a person to call mama and share your beauty & sorrow of your life with her.

But I do really hope that each of good thing I do and doa' dedicated for her will be accepted by Allah

I better stop here as my tears are running down heavily .

I miss mama so much

Al-fatihah



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Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Bersalin di Tempat Kerja

We have a newborn baby boy in the company yesterday ! The first in history. One of our contract worker gave birth in our company premise.. Actually by chance I arrived from another building at about 5.15pm and saw an ambulance entering the company and parked at entrance. We are very sensitive to ambulance as we just had a fatal accident last 2 weeks. So, what’s next ?

I was on my way to clinic for a pumping routine and I suspect the GH (Penang General Hospital ) staff also heading to clinic too. So I followed them and is true enough. I was informed by the guard “ ada orang nak beranak”…

At clinic, our in-house nurses and doctor with mommy-to-be is ready . They brought her on stretches to ambulance . Our inhouse clinic handover the case to GH staff. Therefore, I started my pumping routine as usual after they had cleared the clinic . Halfway pumping, clinic received a call from informed that “ Kepala baby dah keluar.Kena patah balik klinik.sambut kat sini. “ They are still at entrance area which is 5 minutes from clinic

The clinic staff ‘ kelamkabut’ prepare the things back la.. I have been chased out by the doc “You better run away from here and continue later” she joked. So, I went out to my colleague ‘s cubicle . About 10 minutes later, I went down to clinic to see what’s happening. To my surprise, clinic was clear and the doc told me that baby boy safely delivered in the ambulance .

To cheer-up the crowd I joined them at the entrance area . Our ERT team (Emergency Response Team) is there to help. ( tapi depa ni lelaki- buleh jadi ‘midhusband’ je la )

Our HR snap a picture and baby is soo cute . Senang sungguh mak dia bersalin anak sulung. The ambulance went-off at 6pm and I continue my pumping session at clinic while carry on keypochi-ing activity with nurses.

The doc and nurses were calm. Yang riuh kami2 ni la , macam jakun tak pernah bersalin

By right we don’t allow contract worker to work if they are expecting. Because these worker is short term service and they were supplied and interviewed by agent. Somehow, she managed to escape in when she was 7++months pregnant and nobody notice . She’s wearing sweater all the time and to the fact the baby also small. Moreover, she declared herself as ‘single’ in application form. Perhaps she need the job badly as current economic is not promising .

Wallhu’alam whether is she single or married.

If she is our permanent staff, the baby will be sponsored until he is 21 years old.
Am I keen to deliver my next baby in company premises because the baby will be sponsored… ?? I don’t think so lah…


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Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Tag-Masih ingatkah daku tentang...

1)Tempat pertemuan anda dan suami utk pertama kalinya …
1st time jumpa masa meeting .(skemanya..hihi)

2) Pandangan peribadi anda terhadap sikap atau ciri2 pada dirinya ketika mula2 berkenalan…
Tak amik pot sgt pun ciri2 dia masa tu…lagipun tgh meeting

3) Tempat ‘dating’ di mana dia meluahkan perasaan pada anda …
No dating

4) Jika anda masih ingat, ayat yg dia gunakan ketika meluahkan perasaannya …
Takde ayat luah perasaan la..( tak romantiknyeee..ngee), he just straight forward on his intention.

5) Berapa lama hubungan anda hingga ke jinjang pelamin?
Hubungan..? Kalau dikira dari waktu saya ditakdimkan sampai kawin adalah dalam 4 tahun lebih kot.

6) Berapa lama usia perkahwinan anda sekarang?
2 tahun 2 bulan 10 hari

7) Kejutan yg pernah dia buat pada anda …
Dalam semua kejutan, yang paling terkejut dan mengejutkan bilamasa saya ditnya sudikah menjadi pasangan hidupnya.. I don’t expect as we never talk to each other before

2ndly, dia buat saya pregnant..hahaha


8) Perancangan anda dan dia dlm rumahtangga …
Sila refer buku perancangan keluarga kami.heheh

9) Bagaimana dia melayani karenah anak2 ?
Sebagai seorang abi, penuh kasing sayang yg lemak berkrim ..heheh

10) Hubungan suami anda dengan keluarga sebelah anda
Superb

Nak tag sapa..tadak kot sbb macam ramai dah jawab

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Sunday, April 26, 2009

Tag Wallpaper - dari Pn. Imah

Tag dari Pn Imah kita jauh nun di Perlis...( tak jauh tara mana la dari Penang ni )

1) Anda perlu printscreen wallpaper anda yg tengah guna skrg. jangan tipu2 ek !

Tak tipu aihh.ni la gambaq kat desktop background cek . gambaq sapa lagi kalau bukan puteri kesayangan cek pakai tudung corak biji kopi nih..

2) Bagitau pasaipa anda suka gambaq ni
Sebab puteri cek dok diam2 pakai tudung bila cek snap gambaq ni..pastu muka dia molatt, mata terbeliak tengok kamera

3) Tag 10 org lagi..
Issh banyak sangat la 10 org tu..cek tag skit org cukup la..Cek nak tag kenalan2 blogging yg baru..sudi2kanlah menjawab, tapi cek tak paksa...

1. Rozy
2. Ummi Ina
3. UmmiSalsabeel
4. AnasFadilah (Ziyyad tak sihat, cek takpaksa Erni no.. )



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Friday, April 24, 2009

My Dream Nursing Wear

I never bought any nursing dress for myself. And never use nursing cover eversince I breastfeed my daughter. But still I hope that I can get my Dream Nursing Wear one day.

I’ve browsed thru some of available nursing wear in the market but seems like it doesn’t suit me well. Is not because of the size ( I am not that big, I am a normal size of Asian lady) but the design.. Am I too choosy??

So, how do I breastfeed my daughter in public without nursing wear or cover ?

I am comfortable wearing long blouse / dress for outing . I love jubah so much and my jubah collection is more that my baju kurung &blouse (from simple yet sweet, deluxe, with and without button/zip infront and etc ). So this is the reason why I did not buy any nursing wear as most of is a standard length for t-shirt or blouse . I did find a long nursing blouse but some factors that choose me not to buy it (design/material).I always look for jubah with button /zip in front but most trendy jubah without button. ( or I’m unlucky yet to find it ) . Definitely I will grab if I find nice one with reasonable price . Anyone know where can I get nursing jubah with affordable price?

Can you imagine how I’m going to nurse my daughter while wearing jubah without button at public if the condition are 1) no nursing room 2) I didn’t bring my nursing cover ( I had one but never use). Am I going to ‘selak’ my jubah down from my leg up to my breast even with another layer of long skirt/kain inside ? Oho.. I don’t think so…

So, my available ready to wear “nursing dress” in my wardrobe is jubah/mini jubah with button/zip in front (luckily I have quite a number of it ) and custom made baju kurung with button in front . Thank you KakTini that understand my “fussy” requirement in tailoring my baju kurung and offer me affordable price. Even now, whenever I want to shop new clothes for myself , most important factor to consider is does the attire have opening ( either button or zip) in front ?

Enjoy part of my jubah cum nursing wear collection for outing ( bought during anak dara time)








In my opinion and base on my personal experience, button is not appropriate for nursing wear, especially when you are facing the hungry baby and your hand hurrying unbutton your dress. Moreover, it can be a shameful moment if u forgot to button it back after nursed and somehow your tudung is not covering the ‘precious part’ properly .

Zip functioning wise is easier than button still not a prefect feature for nursing wear. If you are rough user, it might hurt your skin and zip can easily malfunction compare to button. . But both button and zip can be a life safer to replace a nursing wear when nursing in public without a cover and better still compare to ‘adegan selak menyelak’.

That is why if you were ask me , how is my dream nursing wear of course I will say a jubah with proper “window”. I don’t dream for very stylish nursing wear. A comfortable nursing wear that serve the purpose, charming & suit me well is more than enough. Since my tudung is covering upper part of my body, I wo
uld like

1)
A jubah made from chiffon is the best material for me as chiffon is soft and comfy to both baby and myself. Chiffon will also portrait a luxurious look for the wearer.

2) The jubah decorated with sequin/beading all over the legging part.

3) I would love to have French lace on the “window” for breastfeed to hilited the special design there (even nobody can see it).

4) Or may have like “hanging toys” sewn on “window” area for baby to play with while nursing . Just like here but this one is a necklace .I wish this can be sewn on the fabric.

5) Perhaps the sleeve part can be designed with soft arm padding to support my baby’s head and avoid 'lenguh' at mom's arm.

Haha, too much of imagination !

Any fashion designer would like to sponsor my dream nursing wear ? Ahaks…!

Hereby I attached my sketch (yang tak berseni ni) .


P/S : MommyLyna, aci tak masuk contest dengan entry cenggini.Kita segan la vote2 gitu



MSK-Chantek2

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Thursday, April 23, 2009

Tying Shoelace

Fun activity to practice together with you lil’one. I just brought a new shoes home. Yes brought not bought. Got it for free. Actually this shoe is being use at my company but the new brand is cheaper compare to previous brand. This is cost saving.. To replace my existing shoe which I think is time for its service to be switch to jogging shoe..Hahah

I gave to Shukrina and showed her how to tie the shoelace . She was so happy when pulling the long lace. And guided her again to the next hole.. Ater 3-4 trial and singing my own rhyme ( e.g go to the right, push in there, pull it here, then go to the left ), she able to slot in the lace by herself ( but disorderly la) . Sometimes, she missed the hole and after a guide, she continue . She enjoyed and ‘tekun’ with the activity. But unhappy when the lace become shorter.

And after while, she left the shoe there ( Itula budak, cepat sangat boringnya) and ummi has to complete ( read “re-do”) it.

Is a simple activity kan ( cannot compare with homeschooler la who creatively teach living skill) but is fun to practice it together with you lil’ one. Get colorful/design shoelace even more attractive

P/S: Bila anak besar sikit leh le ajar seni2 mengikat tali kasut. Saya cuma tahu 2 jenis ikatan je..yang silang and melintang. Teringin nak buat yg macam tikar ni dan macam macam lagi.
Ummu Imtiyaz
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Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Breastfeeding on air @ IKIM.fm

I was listening to IKIM.fm on my way back home yesterday. Tuesday evening’s slot is a talk given by Dr. Arif from UKM regarding Quran and Science. Couples of slot previously was discussing about al-Quran, ayah in Quran,numbering in Quran, how it was arranged , how it’s relate to science so on and so forth.


Dr.Arif did shared with ‘Mustami’unal kiraam”-pinjam perkataan DJ Muna Jazman utk slot Haaiya bil ‘Arabiah on experience of Mualaf from West . How did they discover and attracted to Islam by reading/studying Quran .

Since I was quite late off from office, I managed to listen halfway. Interesting part was, yesterday Dr. Arif talked about breastfeeding by quoting ayah in Quran and he elaborated on it when I turned the radio on. Am not sure what is the topic about as I did not listen from beginning but I believe is breastfeeding is a part of point of his topic. Further he also elaborated on aurah and some other fiqh related ayah

Am afraid my writing here is not 100% as his words , but I try my best to recall.So any reader that listened to him yesterday or have knowledge about it , kindly correct me if mistaken

He took ayah from Surah Luqman (15)

"Dan Kami perintahkan kepada manusia (berbuat baik) kepada dua orang ibu-bapaknya; ibunya telah mengandungnya dalam keadaan lemah yang bertambah-tambah, dan menyapihnya dalam dua tahun. Bersyukurlah kepada-Ku dan kepada dua orang ibu bapakmu, hanya kepada-Kulah kembalimu."


And another ayah from Surahtul ahQaaf (14)

"Kami perintahkan kepada manusia supaya berbuat baik kepada dua orang ibu bapaknya, ibunya mengandungnya dengan susah payah, dan melahirkannya dengan susah payah (pula). Mengandungnya sampai menyapihnya adalah tiga puluh bulan, sehingga apabila dia telah dewasa dan umurnya sampai empat puluh tahun ia berdoa: "Ya Tuhanku, tunjukilah aku untuk mensyukuri nikmat Engkau yang telah Engkau berikan kepadaku dan kepada ibu bapakku dan supaya aku dapat berbuat amal yang saleh yang Engkau ridai; berilah kebaikan kepadaku dengan (memberi kebaikan) kepada anak cucuku. Sesungguhnya aku bertobat kepada Engkau dan sesungguhnya aku termasuk orang-orang yang berserah diri".


Both surah stated about breastfeed. In surah Luqman, weaning in 2 years time while in Surahtul Ahqaaf, the carrying of the child to his weaning is a period of 30 months.

Jom buat matematik sikit

Carrying child + Breastfeed = 30 months

x + 24 months = 30 months

x = 30 months – 24 months

= 6 months


X = pregnancy only 6 months? Orientalist might use this to say that Quran is wrong. All the while we know that pregnant is ~9months.

But Allah is Great ! He want us to study deeper and matsalleh specialist already prove from their research that if a baby was delivered after his/her 6 months old in the womb, provided with extra care for premature baby, the baby will able survive and alive. That is why in Western country ( I can’t recall which country Dr.Arif was referring to), for any abortion is must less than 6 months

This is only some point of his talk. He even elaborated more .

Another point from him is specifically about breast milk (BM).

Surah Al-Baqarah (223)

"Para ibu hendaklah menyusukan anak-anaknya selama dua tahun penuh, yaitu bagi yang ingin menyempurnakan penyusuan. Dan kewajiban ayah memberi makan dan pakaian kepada para ibu dengan cara yang makruf. Seseorang tidak dibebani melainkan menurut kadar kesanggupannya. Janganlah seorang ibu menderita kesengsaraan karena anaknya dan juga seorang ayah karena anaknya, dan waris pun berkewajiban demikian. Apabila keduanya ingin menyapih (sebelum dua tahun) dengan kerelaan keduanya dan permusyawaratan, maka tidak ada dosa atas keduanya. Dan jika kamu ingin anakmu disusukan oleh orang lain, maka tidak ada dosa bagimu apabila kamu memberikan pembayaran menurut yang patut. Bertakwalah kepada Allah dan ketahuilah bahwa Allah Maha Melihat apa yang kamu kerjakan."

The 2 years complete breastfeed is a guide not only for Muslim but to all human beings as Quran is “dustur’ (panduan) to all . Worldwide, WHO, international organization draw a line for a 6 month for exclusive breastfeed and to continue until 2 years for a complete cycle.

I remember my conversation with my boss ( a Chinese man) and another colleague on pregnancy , breastfeeding as my boss is expecting to be a daddy soon. He was asking me until when I’m gonna breastfeed my daughter. From his way of questionning, I tried to analyze that he might think different race/religion might have different “timeline”. Confidently I said “2 years” ( dalam hati berdoa agar dipermudahkan usaha dan diperbanyakkan rezeki susu utk anakku ). He told that he and his wife was briefed the same thing ( 2 years) by a nurse during attending antenatal class . So we are singing the same song boss ! Yeahhh !

Back to Dr. Arif explanation :
There is a research from matsalleh country ( u may want to contact Dr. Arif for further details of the research ) on breastmilk sample from a 0 day of (BM) until 40 months BM that was taken from a nursing mother . 1cm3 of each sample is being studied on the nutrient and a chart was plotted.

These scientist discovered that content of carbohydrate in BM is the most at the age of 20months while after 24 months, the content starts to drop and dropping further. Of course there are abundance nutrients inside BM than cannot be challenged by any formula milk but Dr. Arif only hilited this part

For those who go and study only able to know why Quran said weaning is after 24 months. There must be a reason for a thing to happen. Allah knows the best and always give the best. MasyaAllah… Appreciate those scientist that working hard in their research sometimes for years to support the truth. They are coming from various of ethnic and religion . Wahai diri yg mengaku Muslim ni bila nak kaji Quran..??

P/S : You can personally email to Dr. Arif to get access to his blog for more interesting discovery about Quran/Islam and Science . He is on air for IKIM every Tues about 6pm.

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Monday, April 20, 2009

Out-Of-Door Activity

This picture was taken last weekend. Shukrina was helping abi to clean the compound .Abi was trimming the plant while Shukrina swept it off.. and she was prohibited from entering the house coz ummi also was ‘enjoying’ spring cleaning day inside the house.

I observed that she was very very happy, freely move around the porch.Umi gave chance to get her hand / cloth dirty that day Shukrina with curly(xmau panjang ) short hair-looks boyish


This is ‘budak taman’… I observed my neighbors. The most far is end of our row, and since the playground is quite far , they just play around the house.. and have to be watch out everytime vehicle moving in and out from the road. Kesian kekadang main badminton kena stop sebab ada kereta nak lalu…

Same goes to Shukrina. Since she is small, ummi doesn’t allow her to go far from the gate. Usually play inside porch with abi or tokba. Pity her….Only weekend ummi able to bring her to playground.

It’s reminded my time as budak kampong…seluruh pelosok kampong ku jelajahi. Panjat pokok, main pasir, main longkang,tangkap ikan pekoq kat sungai belakang..and my parents trusted us and know with whom we were playing. All people in the village were our neighbors, so my parents has their ‘eyes’ everywhere on us. No handphone to call us home.(salu jerit je la… “Baliikkk..dah petang/maghrib” …. Or “ Balik mandiii “) .No worries at all

Budak Taman nowadays…they may miss all the nuisance /mischievous playing in nature.

Nak main pasir..jalan tar belaka, tanah pun seciput … climbing tree…?? Where got big branch . swim in the river ??..u have to go to pool swimming in chlorine water with proper swimming wear. After all , sit down playing videogame in house.

Have u seen an advertisement in TV recently. A father got back home after work. He’s son is playing video game. When the father ask, where’s ur mom? The son replied : Tesco price-cut!

This adv demonstrate the real Malaysians…

Luckily Shukrina babysitter’s house in still kampong nature. She still got chance to see children playing hide and seek-in the bushes, behind a big tree, look at cows and goats jalan jalan cari makan. Randuk the mud after rainy days .

Budak kampong may play what budak taman play ( playing video game/PS/riding bicycle/badminton )but budak taman, very seldom have chance to play with nature. Cuma tunggu time balik kampong, If grandparent also stay in taman ??

Can I suggest to any developer ,urban area should have a place like SunwayLagoon or Genting but with ‘mainan budak kampong” . Should have build in rumah kampong,pangkin , river, coconut tree, moktan tree..sand,mud, titi, guli,gasing, main tok jengkek, main police centry.

Let our urban generation to experience budak kampong nature of life.

Do u still remember this rhymes ? Police sentri, want to jaga police mati pencuri jaga…

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Sunday, April 19, 2009

Tag-Blog's name

Melangsaikan hutang dari dari Nas

1) Apakah nama blog anda sekarang dan kenapa anda memilih nama itu?

Imtiyaz

Imtiyaz sempena nama anak sulong saya..

2) Apakah link blog anda sekarang dan bagaimana boleh timbul idea untuk menamakannya seperti itu?

http://imtiyazs.blogspot.com

pikiq punya pikiq, letak nama Imtiyaz la..lagipun maksudnya bagus..Cemerlang..

3) Apakah 'method' penulisan dalam blog anda?

gaya bebas


4) Pernah terasa nak hapuskan blog anda? Sebabnya?

pernah rasa nak quit..(padahal baru setahun jagung ) tapi berbekalkan azam yg kuat, berjaya jugak update entry2 baru.. sbb tu caca marba gaya penulisannya


5) Apakah pendapat anda mengenai blog kepada pemilik blog yang tag anda ini?

saya tak pernah jumpa Nas..cuma kenal dlm internet ja..tapi saya tau, Nas seorng kawan yg baik..banyak nasihat, guide yg dia bagi dlm m.com dulu yg saya jadikan panduan. mama mithali utk Inshe dan adik2nya. rajin&pandai masak.Moga selamat melahirkan adik Inshe annti

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Saturday, April 18, 2009

Tag "My Picture Profile"

Dapat tag lagi dari MummyHnH

My Profile Picture Tag..
baru berangan2 nak tukar profile picture...blum tukar, dah dpt tag

1) Letakkan gambaq profile anda







2) Terangkan maksud gambaq itu.
Gambaq ni actually kandid dari saya punya subordinates..masa tu dia partime free lancer photographer . tapi skrg dia quit dari kompeni kami and buka syarikat photography sendiri.
masa ni dept kitorg buat gathering main bowling kat BJ complex.. Shukrina baru 6 months

3) Kenapa pilih gambaq tu
sebab saya tak byk koleksi gambaq...saya rasa gambaq ni natural, takde posing yang dibuat2,namanya kandid, tak perasan pun masa bila mamat ni amik..heheh..tapi segan tu yg buat kaler cenggitu tu

Nak tag siapa : (Kalau korang ta buat lagi la..sile le buat )
1) KakYong
2) Nas ( tag hang pun blum daku langsaikan )
3) Mummy Ila.. owner MyHayderstore tu
4) Herr sifu kapkek
5) Imah pkpb (jawab Imah jgn tak jwb )

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Thursday, April 16, 2009

When a child speaks

A friend of mine was telling me about her 8 year-old daughter. Their family just moved to a new house a month ago and adjusting to the new life.The daughter is a cheerful, friendly girl and easily make friend with people around her.So as a new neighborhood, she likes to greet people and start a conversation. Even she initiated relationship more than her mother.

Besides her friendly character, there were 2 incidents which make the mother like to gum the daughter’s mouth. The first happened when one of their neighbor just moved in. This lady stays alone but on that day her parent from kampong came to help. So , my friend’s family greet them and have a chit chat while helping .Is a normal when older parents like to say “ tolong tengok-tengok anak macik ni no… dia dok sorang ja.” My friend just about to reply, out of sudden, her daughter said..

“ Nak tolong tengok apa..kakak ni dah besaq, bukan baby lagi…”

Maknya terkedu sebentar

2nd story

My friend's house is on the left wing while most of residents in right wings are Indian&Indian Muslim

One day when the daughter back from Quran class, one Indian Muslim lady neighbour on the right wing were asking her, where she went for class? who teach her ? all about her Quran class . After the daughter replied, is her turn to ask to the lady.

"Makcik ni Hindu ka Islam...?"

**Hindu in Penang is referring to Indian (race) not the religion**

She got confused looking at the lady. Looks like India but asking her about 'mengaji' and informing the daughter that she wanted to send her daughter to 'mengaji' too.This story was told by the Indian Muslim lady to the girl's mother..Alamak..

As for India Muslim in Penang, some people might think they are Indian..This community is 'peranakan'. they also known as mamak.And most of them fuent in Tamil. Some place call them 'mamak keling'. I think if in KL, keling refer to Indian. am I rite ? For a young girl like her, she yet to differentiate between Indian, mamak, mami by merely looking the face. Over the time, when she grows in Penang community, am sure she will know .

This is kid, they are straight, never tell lies and just say what they think in their mind.In this kind of situation, is unfair to punish them directly . Ya, we might feel ashamed for our child's openess for instant in this situation. But they are just a kid and still learning.Parent should correct them by providing an explaination... and it' s normal for a child to ask why..why..why..and parent should ready to entertain each of the question in order to make them understand.

Even at my daughter's age ( 1 year ++), I should not neglect to her question/ query/talking even I don't understand. Just answer and talk to her in' adult way of communicating' and avoid
'bahasa bayi' . Baby sign is much helpful.

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Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Kabinet Baru


I hope is not too late to congratulate at the same time express my condolence to our new saff kepimpinan of 2009 Cabinet .Congratulation of the trust given,title,$$$ and pity them on the load of amanah they are receiving

When I was in school, we were familiar with saying..whoever hold a title/responsibility, one of your leg is in neraka. -not sure from where is the source but to describe how difficult to be someone up there. And we always received wish of 'takziah' bila dapat jawatan.


I got this from MAZA

“Kamu semua begitu bercita-cita terhadap jawatan kepimpinanan, ianya akan menjadi penyesalan pada hari kiamat. Ianya sesuatu yang nikmat pada permualaannya tapi keburukan pada akhirnya” (Riwayat al-Bukhari)

Some of the cabinet ministers are well known, some are new face ( for me who is very naive in politics arena). Whomever they are, we hope that we will carry out the duty as Pak Menteri or Mak Menteri with full of accountability , jujur amanah,fathonah,tabligh. Am sure most of us knew the new saff ,if not 100% at least we know who is Malaysia’s PM, Deputy PM and few VVVIP ( Very X 3 important/popular portfolio such as Education Ministry, Finance, Defence ,Domestic Trade &Consumer Affair and etc)


After the lists released, for sure there is “sembang2 kedai kopi” expressing their unsatisfaction with the new cabinet…Why Mukhriz who lost in UMNO election is appointed as Deputy Minister, why not Khairi

Why remain those loss in UMNO election as Minister and even loose in national election PRU 12 as Minister ?

And Perlis start complaining about no Rep from Perlis in Cabinet..pulak.Does Penang have..? Ada..Dr. Koh Tsu Koon, Penang’s ex CM ( walau tidak berjaya dun batu kawan) as Menteri di Jabatan Perdana menteri taking care of Hal Ehwal Perpaduan dan Pengurusan Prestasi. While Borneo can smile with their several Reps in cabinet include new Puteri UMNO Dato’ Rosnah replacing Dato Noraini Ahmad as DM of Health( I think one of the reason might be due to her illness-hope she will recover soon… **prayer** )


They must be a reason why our PM appointed si polan and si polan. Only he knows…Since I am not directly connected to them in terms of work, so I am not able to judge their performance. Just last week our PM introduced KPI ( Key Performance Indicator) to evaluate his subordinates’ performance . KPI is not new. It has been practicing in many organizations. Is good to have for our saff kepimipinan while normal people been practicing it for ages. We down here is struggling for our KPI for seciput kenaikan gaji . Must so for group of people above there.

And I listened to IKIM.fm this morning , most of caller agreed that KPI to be published out and make known , so public can be the reviewer. Bukankah tugas mereka2 di atas utk berkhidmat utk rakyat jelata ini…? One caller even suggested that Opposition party should be the person who monitor their KPI. You will know how is the review if this is materialized :)


Wahh..looks like I am into polithinking larr..

Politics is one of favorite topic during our breakfast time at workplace. And I represent Nisa’. :)

P/S: I’m proud of my MP .That is enough for tiny me.

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Monday, April 13, 2009

Fitted Diaper

I should consider to wear Shukrina with fitted diaper rather than using pocket with hemp insert at night. Shukrina's CD collection only consist of Pocket CD (OS + sizing )( because ummi loves pocket sooo much) + AIO. Never think of wearing fitted for her as pocket with extra insert is good enough

Nowadays, I noticed that with pocket CD+microfiber + hemp is in vain for her . If Pocket CD+Gad microfiber+GAD Hemp sometimes ok, sometimes KO. Cannot last for 8-10 hours compare to previous experience . I think now she consider as heavy wetter ever since she passed 1 year because she started to consume lots of plain water beside BM for her drink.

Why fitted is my choice . Fitted diaper is more absorbent that any pocket diaper as the whole body of the diaper is absorbent. So the reputation of absorbing is proven . and it’s cheaper bit from pocket . But I have to bear in my mind , I have to cover it with Diaper cover (fleece or wool) as fitted not a waterproof material. But I can also get a cheap diapercover available at mall like Pureen,Anakku .


Dear friend, anyone experience using fitted can suggest me which brand is good and worth to buy ??

I may consider getting a Drybees Fleece Pocket Diaper for night time use. I heard that this is also another good CD for night as feel is more breathable compare to PUL

Drybees Fleece Pocket Diaper

I’m now in the stage of facing the adversity in CD journey. Lately I encounter rashes on Shukrina when she wear C*ola*aby CD. Besides the drop wing issue (agreed by soem other CD mommies), I thick I should change my detergent. Currently I’m using TOP as recommended as one ‘safe’ detergent in CD washing. Before this I use Pureen HAD but seems TOP is cheaper or same price but with larger amount Or I put it terlebih2..I don’t think so as I always be cautious with the amount been used. What I’ve done so far is stripping / Soda,/vinegar/sometimes with hot water and bath my wm with hot water too. But not that consistent la..

But I don’t face any problem with other branded CD especially from US. Very rare to have rashes problem. Does brand matter?

I’m excited when started to wear Shukrina with CD ..but after almost a year…I started to face the obstacle and experienced me with all kinds of “treatment” activity . I am still enjoying CDing Shukrina and never think to quit even is not fulltime CDing.

For newbie to CD, enjoy each of the moment CDing your lil’one. U might happy at initial stage but after sometimes, u may face the difficulty which make u creatively think and react your own baby's good.


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Monday, April 6, 2009

What A Day

Monday is always be a boring/lazy day to start a week for me. But when comes to Tues, Wed, and Thurs I am energetic and workaholic ( is it ..?? ) and eagerly waiting for Firday turn up as I treat Friday always as weekend mode yet still finishing my work and seek for a illegal longer lunch time.( I am not a good example of employee to follow, dear friend . J )

This morning was really miserable . I was afraid that I fail to reach office or at least to drive thru the 13.5km of Penang Bridge as my fuel level is at ‘kelip kelip” mode… ( Dalam hati geramnya sebab abi kata sempat lagi ). Abi is the person to pump my petrol and he guaranteed me . But he forgotten that I went out for lunch on Friday and visit Baby Safiyyah on my way back + heavy raining and terrible Friday jam .

I don’t want to be a person that create another problem to other Penang Bridge users ( Monday morning jam is 1st trouble) if I have to stop ( or auto stop) my car due to “MINYAK HABIS tengah2 jambatan ”

Instead of taking a normal route to office, I ‘ve to turn to another route which is near to petrol station after bridge. Alhamdulillah, manage to get there before a sudden stop . I am a loyal Pe*ro*as customer but in this emergency situation , Ca*%ex is the nearest ..belasah je la.. another things when looking at the nozzle, which one I should use, the yellow or the red ? Dgn muka tak malu, I asked the cashier after made a payment . Smiling, he answered me .”Kuning Kak “ ..hehehe

Reached office , my boss already there ( aiit, salu I lebih awai dari dia ), I seek for his permission to attend funeral of demise Tok menakan nearby. I missed my breakfast even I brought MIL’s capati but I gave to colleague .

And consequence of not having breakfast, perut + kepala sudah masuk angin..
The whole afternoon, I wish I can just lie down on bed because I can’t concentrate at all.
Even after heavy lunch, still angin2 tu dok bergaduh dlm kepala ni kot

p/s: I’m the one with lot of angin inside.picit je, brpp, erkk…smua bunyi keluar
currently I’m taking HPA pil angin (on and off ,ingat2 lupa )–forgot the name , so far ok la..tapi angin dlm badan ni degil...kalau sekali menyerang, KO

Moral of this entry for me :
1) Make sure fuel is sufficient for any journey
2) Do not miss my breakfast -at least standby something in the car
3) Disclipline on medication (vitamin, pill angin )

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Friday, April 3, 2009

Wear your baby-part 2

Why I choose sling rather than baby carrier in the market. Very frank answer

1) Attracted to Kak Shida way of wearing Anis and demo during attending MMPS (Mother to
Mother Peer Support ) activity
2) Then, only know normal baby carrier may have affect to your baby spinal stress
3) Some other advantages gain after tried it (already listed in previous entry)
4) Is one of attachment parenting way –lately only discover

For no. 2 reason, I discovered it when reading Jess blog for more pouch sling information during my initial stage of knowing BabyWearing . Jess is the founder (if not mistaken ) of MBW

This article explains which styles of baby carriers promote healthy spine development in an infant and describes the unnecessary stress and resulting spinal condition that can result from using certain carriers.

From the article
"A baby's spine is placed in a compromising position in many of today's popular carriers. If the carrier positions the infant upright, with the legs hanging down and the bodyweight supported at the base of the baby's spine (i.e. at the crotch), it puts undue stress on the spine which can adversely affect the development of the spinal curves and, in some cases, cause spondylolisthesis."

Read more here...
Article

Am not sure where I got this but I read this before from a trustworthy source ."your baby bum should be lowered than the knee"..U can see this in any babywearing example,pouch , MT, RS...the knee bend and place slightly above the bum .Unlike the normal baby carrier, the leg is hanging down and the bum of coz lar above the knee .that's where the stress is.. - correct me if I'm wrong

Is this question come accross your mind ( because it crossed my mind oledy ) why normal baby carrier in the market is much cheaper (~RM25-RM50) compare to a pouch sling for instant 2 piece of cloth sewn worth at ~RM80 and MT above RM100 and some other brand can even go utnil RM200++

I bet is not only because fo the design/pattern but is more to its function and safety aspect

I still can't upload any pic to show. (Lately I'm facing a difficulty with Mozilla and have to use IE. wait for my brother to come back and help to resolve..)

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Thursday, April 2, 2009

Wear your baby

Do you familiar with a woman carrying baby in kain batik panjang or synonym with MakIndon style. This is what we call babywearing . Babywearing is another attachment parenting method . ( I got this from Hanz’s .Thanks Hanz)

Now is not only Mak Indon but also anybody can practice this . The trend is starting to be spreaded to our community especially with new modern babywearing style.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Babywearing
"Babywearing is the practice of wearing or carrying a baby or child in a sling or other form of carrier. Babywearing is far from new and has been practised for many years around the world. In the industrialized world babywearing has gained popularity, partly under influence of advocates of attachment parenting, however, not all parents who babywear consider themselves attachment parents. Babywearing is a form of baby transport. "

Babywearing type various from sling, pouch and ring, mei tai and some others. I only familiar with pouch sling and yet to try other types.

I started to wear Shukrina when she was 6 months and until now ( 1 year 3 months) still carry her in my pouch sling for certain occasion like at night market or doing house chores . Previously when she yet to walk, I always carry her in the sling especially when only both of us on the go. If abi around, definitely abi will carry her –normal dokong as abi is not convenience using sling and my sling can only fit me , S size – so cannot share :)

What is the advantage of babywearing from my point of view. You can get more advantage from related website
1) The baby will feel more secure and comfortable as she is close to her mother/father
2) We as mother also feel the same way as our baby is attach to us. U can shop without
qualm, not like if your baby in stroller . You have to watch her out closely and your
concentration of shopping is interrupted ( This is me , am not sure other mother )
3) 2 in 1 activity. Shopping/walking while carrying baby with hands free
4) Baby can breastfeed and sleep on the go.
5) Tiredness is less compare to normal dokong because it not your arm support her, is your
upper body who support the weight
6) I think if the baby can talk surely she will express her happiness because she is
sharing the same view as us. She see what we see, she turn when we turn . She tend to
touch what we touch .Unlike letting her in the stroller , she kind of stagnant inside

For instant, while shopping or walking , one of your friend call / say hi to u from the back, of course u will turn to see. And automatically your baby will turn also and she observe her mother and friend talking . Don’t u think this will increase her…what is the most prefect word.. exposure ..??

I observe the different when I bring Shukrina out in stroller and sling. She is more interactive in sling compare quietly in stroller . ( I din’t say stroller is not good. I do have stroller and it's helpful )
7) …. You ca refer to any website related to babywearing or join Malaysian baby Wearer


I involved in babywearing after attracting to KakShida 's way of carrying Anis and after some research on it I chose pouch rather than ring. The first pouch I have is Mylovelycloset but as first time everything seems wrong.I consulted KakShida and according to her different brand different size. And material also play an important role .She gave me her Littlepod to try ..ooowwhhh…love at first feel.

Then I grab handmade pouch from Ridz is from Japanese cotton and suit me well. Until now I’m using this .

I do have desire to have a mei-tai style and new Littlepod but considering the $$ and I already have my pouch , I reserve it first. Wait for 2nd baby la kot2 abi approve the budget.hehehe

I can't upload any pic.. :(

P/S : UmmiSalsabeel inspired me to write this entry . Thanks. Should write more why prefer sling rather than normal baby carrier later

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