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Baru nak update pasal crita SGM... huhuhu
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Support Group Meeting kali ke-2 untuk Kawasan Utara telah berjaya dilaksanakan.

Ini merupakan penglibatan saya buat kali pertama kerana sebelum ini dalam pantang, maka tak dapat nak attend.

Program bermula pukul 9.30pagi. Didahulukan dengan acara taaruf. Masa ni saya sibuk dok breakfast dengan anak dara saya, manakala Mursyid, di’babysit’kan oleh Zah. Terima kasih Zah. So tak sempat nak kenal sgt mula-mula itu.

Sungguh besar cabaran membawa 2 anak kecil tanpa suami . Tapi saya tengok KakSara rileks je..Mungkin Yaya dna Syaik dah cerdik. SI ni , ikut kepala dia la. Mula-mula saya ingat boleh handle tapi sangkaan sedikit meleset. Saya tidak dapat memberikan tumpuan 100%. Mmujur ada adik ipar yang belajar di USM. Terus kol dia tanya free dak. Kawan dok tengah ada BBq dengan geng kat Pantai Jerjak. Nasib dia kata tak kisah nak jaga. Kesian dia..saya dah susahkan dia. Dahla lelaki pulak tu, pandai jugak dia ngasuh. Mula-mula ingat nak suruh dia bawak SI round2 USM untuk beberapa minit, tapi dia kata dia bawak SI trus join BBQ depa.

Ok, berbalik kepada SGM tu. Topik pada hari itu adalah Mitos-mitos dalam Penyusuan.
Antara point yang saya ingat yang telah dibincangkan

1. Tak cukup susu
2. B kanan nasi, B kiri air
3. Size kecik kurang susu
4. Air masak pada bayi utnuk hilangkan dahaga
5. Puting ‘buta’

Perbincangan dikemudi oleh moderator KakShida dan dibantu oleh ahli-ahli MBfPC yang lain, Zah dan KakNida. Banyak maklumbalas dan pengalaman rakan-rakan yang dikongsi bersama. Memang hidup perbincangan hari itu.

Banyak pengalaman yang berbeza yang saya dengar dari rakan-rakan lain. Oleh kerana masiang-masing baru kenal, masing-masing galak bercerita dan bertukar –tukar pandangan. Rasa macam dah kenal lama. Kerana ‘Susu Ibu’ telah mengikat hati-hati kami semua.

Nak update bab makanan sikit. Ada macam-macam juadah, Bihun dari 3 tuan. Mee 2 tuan, kek,kuah durian,muffin, nuget dan macam-macam lagi. Siap boleh tapau bawak balik .

Boleh baca lagi entry tentang SGM ni di bloh Zah atau K.Sara.

photo credit to K.Sara

P/S : AmmiSara, thank you bagi Mursyid & Shukrina hadiah

I am not in the mood of writing blog these few days due to the busyness and tiredness but for the sake of sharing and hope that this entry will not be ‘basi’ , I forced myself to.

Just to story about what happen over the last weekend . I had the opportunity to attend Malaysian BreastFeeding Peer Counselor Program for Northern Region from 5-7 Mar 2010. What is the programis all about ? Well, is about being a peer support in breastfeeding to our community , sound so nice huh..! but is not easy actually.


We learnt about basic of breastfeeding, benefits, human anatomy, communication skill, handle a support group meeting and many more informative module. If I were to describe each and every activity, I don’t think I have time and this will be lengthy. So let’s us look at some photos snapped during the course.





















Overall, I feel great to be part of the team. Thank you to the organizer MBfPC Administrator especially our trainer for the days ( Kak Kamariah owner of SusuIbu, KakShida SlingMeMama, Dr. Kak Faridah and Yusrina Hata, Ibu Az shoppe) for all the taughts , guide and friendship. To my dear participants frens , Afni,Hana,Lina,Zah,KakNida,Syu and Akin ( from Hosp Pantai Mutiara), Dr. Nazrah (from Manjung Hospital who check on my false labor contraction during the course because I was suffering from bad stomach ache ), MeiFern ( munbaby ), PeeChing and Annie ( our nutrition experts), Sara,Aida,Revathi ( from WABA), MMPS frens Sabrina and Vasu- is such a wonderful moment to get to know all of u.

The program is not ended there. We brought back a huge responsibility to be in our community, to support BF . Is not an easy task. If this has been easy, we don't need to a have a support group and everyone will BF since day one.I 'd like to mentione here, is not about getting a training/ 'licience' then only u'll become a peer counselor. Anybody can be one now. And I believe many of us has been supporting BF to another person even without 'peer counselor program'. Hey..look ! Your already a peer counselor !

I do hope to keep the spirit strong in promoting BF especially to my nearest community. I know, you also can be one.

Lama pulak tak menulih dalam bahasa Inggeris, so layan je la ye apa yang saya tulih kat atas tu. Lama-lama tinggai kang, menambahkan karat yang sedia ada pada Bahasa Inggeris saya.

Alhamdulillah...
Gathering Bersama SusuIbu.com dan RatuHati.com telah pun dilaksanakan dengan jayanya hari Sabtu lalu.

Excited berhari-hari sebelum, dok fikir hadiah apa nak bagi untuk kategori baby dan ibu. Pusing p pusing mai, akhirnya dapat jugak sediakan hadiah. Tak sempat disnap hadiah yang saya sediakan. Yang saya tau, 1 hadiah dpt kat Hana, satu lagi kat Aishah. Hope hangpa suka la nooo.

So, kita cerita hari kejadian.Kami sekeluarga sampai lebih kurang 10.20am . Masa tu ramai jugak yang dah mai.Semua muka -muka baru. Yang muka lama masa 1st gath ritu hanya KShida, Hana, Aishah,Kikie, Ain dan saya.

Kami bermula dengan ice-breaking.Since organizer Rozy tak dapat hadir, maka tugas diambil alih oleh Kshida. Ramai ...yang sempat saya ingat dan berkenal-kenalan ialah Ija,Mamanoa,Rini,Sara,Dura ( junior sekolah rendah, tak sangka jumpa di situ), Izzah,IbuArifa (Min),Syira,Fika.ada lagi saya tak ingat.Maaf la ye.

Selepas sessi suai kenal, kami teruskan dengan briefing tentang BabyWearing (BW) oleh Kshida jugak.

Masa ni half way saya dah lari ke kolam sebab SI sampai saja situ, nampak kolam terus nak mandi. Saja nak tengok apa dia dok buat walaupun abi ada. Then dia terus nak p main kat taman permainan. Sambil request nak nasik lemak. So abi dia temankan SI makan kat situ sebelum terus p taman permainan untuk bermain.


Then saya kembali ke tempat gath.Masa tu BW dah nak habis dan semua nampak macam dah nak menjamu selera. Dah nak menghampiri pukul 12. Mesti perut semua berkeroncong. Macam-macam makanan ada.Saya sendiri bawak nasi lemak,ada macaroni goreng,nasi himpit kuah kacang Dura, kuih-muih yang berjenis-jenis, lontong ( sungguh sedap. Saya makan 3 pinggan) Bihun goreng, kek cekelat dan cheese cake dari AloqStaq (thanks Rini -sedap, balik rumah pun dok pulun lagi), pudding dan rojak Hana, kerepek pelbagai dan macam-macam lagi la.


Pas makan, kami sambung dengan penerangan tentang kecemasan dan kecederaan yang boleh berlaku di rumah dan langkah-langkah mengatasinya. Ni sapa lagi kalau bukan Speaker import dari Hospital Sultanah Bahiyah, abiFarish ( suami Hana ). Siap dengan hand-out lagi untk rujukan. Memang satu perkongsian ilmu yang sangat bermanfaat.


Saya tak pasti masa bila sessi Cloth Diaper (CD) diadakan. Yang saya perasan, ada sekumpulan ibu-ibu dah berkumpul setempat dan kshida dok bagi penerangan. Kami-kami yang dah pakaikan anak CD ni dok relaks sambil makan-makan.Ada jugak yang dok melayan karenah anak-anak yang pelbagai.Sementara menunggu Lactation Counselor (LC) sampai, kami agihkan nombor untuk cabutan bertuah.

Dalam 1.30ptg, Dr.Balkees, LC dan Paed dari Pantai Hosp pun sampai. Tajuk kali ini..apa ye..Low Weight Gain for BF baby..macam tu ka...? saya pun tak pasti dan saya pun actually tak dengaq sangat sebab dok layan SI. Nasib baik abi memberikan perhatian, so balik tu, dia yang cerita balik kat saya. Sessi soal jawab pun mendapat sambutan. Dr.Balkees sungguh baik melayan setiap persoalan.


Selesai sessi bersama LC, kami memberikan sedikit cenderahati buat Dr.Balkees.Walaupun diajak untuk makan, dia takmau.Nak bungkus pun takmau. Katanya, dia dah rasa happy dapat bersama untuk sekian kali. Makan bukan agenda utama ( padahal dia baru habis klinik pukul 1 dan terus meluru datang) .Sempat juga dia berkata yang kita yang memperjuangkan BF ni macam alien dalam masyarakat sendiri kerana benda yang dulu-dulu tok nenek kita buat sekarang nak kena berkempen bagai, nak kena memberi kesedaraan dan tarik perhatian , seolah-olah benda baru. Sempat dia bertanya adakah majikan saya support BF dengan menyediakan sekurang-kurangnya nursing room.Dia kata kebanyakan private menyokong cuma sesetengah macam bank.Dan dia baru selesai 'menang kes' untuk HS*C membina sebuah nursing room masa proses renovation bank berkenaan.

Aishah juga sempat buat birthday celebration untuk hero no-2nya..Apa ka nama..Hadiff Syahmi ka..?? Budak-budak semua happy dapat tiup belon yang bunyi tu..

Acara terakhir pastinya lucky draw kelolaan Aishah.Hadiah banyak sangat sampai cabutan kena buat 2x. Pun ada lebih dekat 10. Terpaksa buat pop kuiz sampai Kshida dah tak larat nak fikir nak bagi soalan apa.

Sebelum pulang kami bergambar kenangan.

Di kesempatan ini, saya ingin mengucapkan jutaan terima kasih kepada semua yang hadir.Seronok sangat dapat berkenal-kenalan dengan kalian. Lain kali ada rezeki insyaAllah, kita jumpa lagi.

Bilangan ahli gath dah bertambah lebih dua kali ganda..Moga tahun depan lebih ramai yang akan join. Untuk n3 gath tahun lalu, sila baca sini

Buat abi, terima kasih kerana memahami dan sudi menemakan ummi dan SI ke sini sehingga sanggup membatalkan hal kerja. Last year pun abi tak join sebab kena kerja. This year ummi paksa sebab ummi nak SI seronok boleh bermain dan mandi kolam, ummi boleh senang lenang bergath. Kalau kami berdua saja alamat SI tak dapat main/mandi atau ummi tak dapat concentrate pada program.

Akhir sekali..nak enteprem jugak..khas buat Hana, balik tu terus dayah gedik try tudung yang ditempah khas dari AloqStaq. Suami dah malas nak layan tolong tangkap gambaq. Letih ... Anak bapak terus zzzz. So terpaksa la amik gambaq syok sendiri. Suka sangat.... terima kasih daun keladi..lain kali nak tempah lagi..boleh noo Hana...

My 3 &1/2 years cubicle mate has left me !!

Well, is a norm, people come and go in an organization. And we should be happy to release a person for their good sake, for better future out there.

This entry is just ‘saja-saja’ , because I feel empty , something missing when I stepped into my cubicle this morning.

I had been his cubiclemate for more than 3 years. Yes , him. Actually I am the one who ‘ceroboh' to his cubicle when I first joined this department. After 3 years, we had move to 3 different cubicles together. Even 2nd last cubicle we share with our boss ( temporary he was sitting with us) and now the last cubicle we had to add in one more person , total is 4 .

Even is 4 people, the cub is alive if only left me and him. Since the first cub. Two of us is enough to cherish up the cub. Actually is not him who pretend to be a good listener but is more to myself ‘ yang pagi-pagi dah mai buat bising’. And this cubmate is very patient to go along with all my karenah. Certain morning I come with a good mood, some days with bitter face. And he never fails to listen to all my stories including gossip. Well, banyak sungguh gossip dan rumours di sini. He is too good to be involved in gossiping but he is not good to avoid from listening it from me. Kalah perempuan. Hahaha.. Well, I know he just want to entertain me cause if not, surely I’ll get mad.

I refer lots of thing to him since he is senior and experienced. Sometimes, small matters like sending email pun nak refer. I admit, he is good in writing report, presentation and etc. So supaya saya tidak malu di kemudian hari, baik saya suruh dia perbetui awal2. Even the credits will go to me, I think he is sincere enough. Selama ni berapa kredit sangatla yang ku dapat.huhu !


We can talk about any topic..politic, religion, life. Most of the time he ‘s the one who come out with points, fact while me talk nonsense...Huhuh. Perhaps our interest is different. Man with their politic, world, technology,car, share and stock market. While me , women more to shopping, clothes, entertainment, kids, jewellery . Even is different but we can complement each other. When he talk about share price, I will look like excited and ‘faham’. Same goes to him I think…

I guess beside my husband, he is another person who get most of breastfeeding (BF) knowledge from me. I wish he is another mommy who is learning about BF, surely he’ll meet at least 6 months of exclusive BFing target. Unfortunately he is a MAN ! but I think ( hope) more or less, he convey BF msg throughout our sharing to his beloved wife . I helped to purchase breast pump for his wife, he bought a cloth diaper for his son from me.


Don’ t get me wrong. As if I don’t have any girl friend. Sampai ilmu BF pun kongsi dengan lelaki. For your information, 18 years ago, this company started with 90% male and 10% female. Up to date, even the % for female is increasing but still we can see more males here. We have more men in our dept and since ‘muka dia yang saya dok mengadap tiap-tiap hari’, thus lots of info we shared together. And we take it professionally. Even is about BF and CDing, he take it as ‘ilmu yang tidak rugi tahu’ even he does not apply it and for some men is like “ what the heck your are talking about “ or some like “ hey..this is 18sx story” . My husband can also talk about BF with his colleague and encourage me and his colleague to interact about BF. For my cubmate, he also tell me about his childrens development, indirectly teach me how to nuture my kids.

Ok, I don’t want to drag this entry or end up I will kutuk him more or puji him more..heheh.. He is not reading my blog. He wanted to but I said, if only he is not our employee, then I’ll give you the URL.


p/s : I am the youngest and the only 20-an yrs old staff in my dept. So is either they treat me like junior or buli me like budak-budak . What do you think?

Secara rasminya Imtiyaz GiveAway telah ditutup semalam.

Alhamdulillah, ada jugak penyertaan dari sahabat-sahabat. Seramai 19 orang yang layak untuk cabutan bertuah ini.Ingat ke 4-5 orang je :)

Seperti yang sedia maklum, blog ni tak ramai yang lalu lalang, maka peluang utk nama sahabat-sahabat naik adalah tinggi. Dan mereka yang tersenarai untuk menyertainya adalah sahabat-sahabat yang prihatin dan meyokong saya dalam dunia blog ni. Aiseehh..ayat macam penghargaan artis pada peminat pulak !!

Ada sahabat blogger lama, dan ada yang baru berkenalan.. Bukan kata yang lain tu tak prihatin cuma sebab mungkin giveaway ni singkat masa dia dan saya idaklah mewar-warkan ke serata alam, makanya sapa yang jengok sini, tau la kan...

Mereka yang bertuah :

1. UmmiKhayra


2. Ibu Mifzal Arsyad


3. Aisyah


4. Nadiah Sidek


5. Kak Hamizah


6. Hanz


7.Mirah


8. Anin


9. Bed


10. IntanLoveAmir


11. Kinnah


12. Ayuzack


13.Sue


14. Mamaemma


15. Rozy


16. Arnie


17. Momma-mia


18. Qay


19. KakYong


Cabutan akan dibuat dalam pertengahan minggu ini. InsyaAllah, keputusannya akan keluar selewat-lewatnya hujung minggu ini.

Sepeti yang dimaklumkan , 3 sahabat daripada 19 yang semuanya bertuah belaka, akan menerima :


1. Korean Brooch dari Zinni

Salah satu kedai aksesori kegemaran saya. Rambang mata kalau berkunjung ke sini.

Sedikit info pasal Zinni. Syarikat pengedar aksesori dan pakaian wanita bumiputera yang berpusat di Alor Setar Kedah. Pernah dianugerahkan dengan " FAIR PRICE AWARD 2007/2008 oleh Kementerian Perdagangan Dalam Negeri, Koperasi dan Kepenggunaan.
Lebih 10 cawangan dibuka di Kedah, 1 di Penang dan 1 di Jalan TAR, KL. Untuk maklumat lanjut, boleh layari www.zinni.com.my

Dipetik dari websitenya:

‘ZINN’ - A household brand name, synonymous with beauty, quality and elegance. Her most attractive character is of course - affordable without any compromise on quality and design. That's ZINNI ...accentuates your flair



2. Fridge Magnet dari Sweetwannurshoppe.blogspot.com


Kiut sangat hasil tangan akak crafter kita sorang ni. Macam-macam yang Kak Wannur boleh buat. Sila la berkunjung ke blog beliau.


3. Buah tangan trademark Penang.

Macam-macam trademark Penang ni. Tapi tak mungkin Nasi Kandaq atau Jambatan Pulau Pinang yang akan diposkan nanti..sungguh tak sesuaii...tunggu...

Di kesempatan ini, saya ingin merakamkan jutaan terima kasih atas kesudian sahabat-sahabat menyertai GiveAway saya yang tak seberapa ni. Moga aktiviti seperti ini dapat mengeratkan lagi ukhhwah sesama kita . - ayat skema -

Semalam saya telah menyakitkan hati orang , tetapi tanpa saya sedari. Sebenarnya saya taktahu pun dia terasa, hanya selepas beberapa jam , ada orang yang mengkhabarkan kepada saya. Sebab musabab dia terasa hati ialah kerana perbualan kami semasa waktu makan tengahari.
Alkisahnya begini...

Saya keluar makan dengan geng anak-anak dara yang muda setahun dari saya dan mereka ini belum berkahwin mahupun berpunya. Perbualan sungguh rancak disamping gelak ketawa dan usikan sesama sendiri. Ada yang meramalkan si polan akan berkahwin sekian –sekian bulan tahun hadapan. Si Polan ni pulak bulan yang lain. Di akhir perjalanan yakni sampai di ofis, mereka menurunkan saya dahulu disebabkan lokasi ofis saya yang agak jauh dari mereka kerana mereka kasihankan saya untuk berjalan. Ketika itu, sempat saya melontarkan satu persoalan kepada salah seorang daripada mereka yang paling ketara berhujah.


“Apakah kesungguhan A ( bukan nama sebenar) untuk berkahwin ini?”.

Soalan saya terhenti di situ kerana destinasi saya telah tiba.



Selang 3 jam selepas itu, saya dikhabarkan yang A rasa terpukul dengan kata -kata saya..( terpukul tu kecik ati ek?)

Si B yang juga anak dara kata, ia mengambil kata-kata saya sebagai peringatan, tak ambil hati pun. Bagus juga sekali sekali diingatkan sebegitu.

Bila dapat tahu yang si A terasa hati,saya pun mula la mencari-kata kesilapan kata-kata saya itu. Ya lah , terlajak perahu boleh diundur,lajak kata ... ( apa sambungan dia, lupa pulak)

Nak menghangatkan cerita, seorang jejaka C yang agak berusia dan masih teruna mempersoalkan siapa saya untuk menyoal A sebegitu. Katanya itu semua bukan kerja saya, itu kerja Tuhan, jodoh , rezeki, ajal maut .saya tidak boleh mengadili/menghukum si A dengan soalan sedemikian rupa.

Maka kami pun berdebat la..agak lama juga seolah-olah tadak keja lain nak buat. Bertekak sampai waktu nak balik..huhuhu.

Saya pun dah lupa sebab banyak sangat yang diperdebatkan. Cuma beberapa hujah yang saya rakamkan di sini.

Antaranya si C berkata, kenpa jodoh kita manusia sibuk-sibuk persoalkan, kenapa tak usaha mencari, tak bersungguh la..awat tak kahwin-kahwin lagi...tu la keja sampai lewat malam, mana dan nak berkenal-kenalan,sedangkan bila cakap pasal ajal, kita tak pernah pun nak sibok-sibok. Tak pernah pun kita kata kat seseorang, “ makan ubat ni, nanti hang tak mati” . Memula nak tergelak jugak ada… Yalah mana pernah kita advise orang supaya makan sekian –sekian ubat untuk elak kematian. Selalunya kita orang melayu ni berlapik, kita akan kata, makanla ubat /vitamin ni, baru sihat sikit. Rajin-rajin la bersenam baru sihat.

Macam –macam lagi la dalil, hadith, sirah Nabi yang kami keluarkan bagi menyokong hujah masing-masing. Tapi saya tau siapa pun berdebat dengan si C, pasti kita akan kalah atau kita terpaksa pura-pura kalah.

Baik saya mahupun dia, masing-masing kami ada betul dan silapnya, Cuma saya tak puas hati bila ditujuh ‘ judgemental’ terhadap jodoh orang lain.

Dan ‘buah’ terakhir yang saya katakana pada si C.

“ I tak akan Tanya U soalan tentang kesungguhan sebab tau U dah lama bertahun-tahun bersungguh dan jodoh belum sampai.Memang soalan macamtu kat kena la untuk u. Yang I tanya pada si A sebab I tau dia masih muda, dlm keadaan dia yang keja sampai lewat malam + weekend, tengah sambung Master dan dia perempuan, bukan mudah macam lelaki nak dapat pasangan. Dia pun dok rasa awatla tadak couple lagi. Lelaki boleh senang-senang mengorat.I cuma tanya tentang kesungguhan tanpa mengharapkan apa-apa jawapan dari dia, Cuma untuk si A fikirkan sendiri, apa bentuk kesungguhan yang perlu ada. Kalau jodoh dia awal, dia tak berkawan dengan siapa pun, boleh kahwin nanti. Yang couple bagai nak rak tak tentu kahwin,Tapi tentunya kita sebagai manusia tidak boleh tunggu dan berharap. Paling kurang pun berdoa la dengan bersungguh-sungguh." wahhh..panjang lebaq sungguh kata-kata saya


Bukan nak sibok pasal jodoh dia, cuma satu soalan saya kira membuatkan mereka tersedar. Si B pun mengetahui, bila saya utarakan persoalan itu, dia pun koreksi dirinya sendiri. Selama ni gedik nak kawin, tapi kesungguhan, preparation tu tak ada sgt. Doa pun macam-macam tu ja.Kadang-kadang pun lupa nak berdoa.

Saya dah pun meminta maaf dari A, tapi dengan baiknya dia kata saya tak bersalah bahkan menyedarkan dia, cuma geram kat si jejaka C tu. Dia kot terasa lebih sebab dah 40++ tapi masih membujang.

Antara petikan saya dapat dari email seorang rakan


Doa termasuk penyebab berlaku takdir


KITA sering mendengar kenyataan 'jika sesuatu perkara memang sudah ditakdirkan, nescaya ia pasti terjadi, sama ada seseorang berdoa atau tidak.' Contohnya jika ditakdirkan seseorang berkahwin, mengapakah dia perlu berusaha dan berdoa.


Fadhil,
Kuala Lumpur.
Jawapan:
MEMANG tidak dapat dinafikan ada pihak berfikiran seperti itu. Mereka meninggalkan doa dengan alasan segalanya sudah ditetapkan, maka doa sudah tidak berfaedah sama sekali. Kesan kesilapan berfikir sedemikian menafikan salah satu bentuk atau penyebab berlaku sesuatu perkara.




Jika anda ditakdirkan kenyang tentu hal itu akan terjadi tanpa makan. Begitu juga jika takdir menjadikan anda kelaparan, makan banyak pun tidak memberi kesan rasa lapar yang menguasai anda.


Contoh lain ialah jika seseorang ditakdirkan memiliki anak, dia tetap akan memilikinya. Dia tidak perlu berkahwin kerana zuriatnya sudah termaktub di Lauh Mahfuz lagi. Namun, jika ditakdirkan tidak memiliki anak, dia tidak akan memilikinya walaupun berkahwin dengan ramai wanita. Oleh itu, tidak ada manfaat baginya berkahwin kerana dalam kedua-dua keadaan takdir sudah menentukannya.


Ada sesetengah manusia pula berpendapat doa ialah ibadat mahdah (seperti solat, haji dan puasa) yang disyariatkan Allah SWT untuk memberi pahala sedangkan ia tiada kesan sedikitpun kepada ketetapan Allah SWT.

Golongan yang berlagak pandai ini beranggapan tiada bezanya antara permintaan dengan lisan dan dengan hati untuk memohon suatu hajat. Perumpamaan seperti seseorang yang inginkan sesuatu tetapi dia berdiam diri kerana Allah SWT menjadikan sesuatu tanpa dipengaruhi oleh manusia dan doanya.

Ada golongan yang tidak kurang jahilnya mengatakan doa sekadar petanda hajat sudah dipenuhi. Jika Allah memberikan taufik kepada seseorang untuk berdoa, ia tanda hajatnya sudah dimakbulkan. Bandingannya seperti kedatangan awan hitam di langit tanda hujan.

Mereka turut berpandangan ketaatan adalah tanda pahala dan syurga seperti juga kemaksiatan petanda seseorang akan diseksa. Ia bukan penyebab kedua-duanya.

Kedua-dua pandangan yang sudah diberikan itu bertentangan dengan akal syariat dan fitrah. Pendapat yang benar adalah pandangan ketiga iaitu sesuatu berlaku mengikut takdir kerana ada beberapa sebab antaranya doa.

Tentulah akal tidak akan menerima berlaku sesuatu tanpa sebab. Jika manusia melakukan sesuatu perkara, ia menjadi sebab terjadi perkara ditakdirkan itu. Jika dia tidak melakukannya, apa yang ditakdirkan itu tidak terjadi.

Ia seperti contoh kenyang dengan sebab makan dan memperoleh anak dengan sebab perkahwinan, mati binatang sembelihan dengan sebab disembelih dan memasuki neraka atau syurga kerana amal perbuatan dan rahmat-Nya.

Demikian juga doa antara faktor penyebab yang paling kuat. Apabila apa yang diminta hamba dalam doanya ditakdirkan terjadi, maka tidak benar dikatakan doa tidak berperanan seperti dikatakan tidak ada gunanya makan minum, berkahwin dan bercucuk tanam kerana ia sudah ditakdirkan.

Kalangan sahabat adalah golongan paling bertakwa serta paling memahami ajaran Islam. Sejarah menunjukkan mereka paling banyak berdoa dan tetap melakukan syaratnya dan memenuhi adab dalam berdoa.

Umar al-Khattab menganggap doa adalah tentera yang hebat. Beliau berkata kepada sahabatnya: "Kalian tidak memperoleh pertolongan dengan banyak tetapi mendapat pertolongan dengan doa yang diterima dari langit."

Beliau berkata: "Sesungguhnya yang aku fokus bukan doa dimakbul saja, tetapi doa itu sendiri disebabkan apabila kalian diilhamkan untuk berdoa, yakinlah Allah SWT akan mustajabkan doa itu"."

Kata-kata Umar al-Khattab adalah kematangan berfikir dan serasi dengan firman Allah SWT.

Surah al-Baqarah ayat 186 yang bermaksud: "Dan apabila hamba-hamba- Ku bertanya kepadamu mengenai Aku (Allah SWT) maka (beritahu kepada mereka) sesungguhnya Aku sentiasa hampir (kepada mereka); Aku perkenankan permohonan orang yang berdoa apabila dia berdoa kepada-Ku."


Surah al-Mukmin ayat 60 bermaksud: "Berdoalah kamu kepada-Ku nescaya Aku perkenankan doa permohonan kamu."


Jelaslah kaitan antara usaha dan doa, bahawa kedua-duanya amat penting dan menyumbang kepada berlaku sesuatu ketetapan ataupun takdir daripada Allah SWT. Justeru, dalam contoh yang diberikan, individu itu hendaklah berusaha untuk berkahwin dengan wanita itu seperti merisik menerusi orang tengah yang diyakini, meminang dan seterusnya perkahwinan.


Mintalah hidayah dan taufik daripada Allah SWT dengan mengerjakan solat sunat seperti istikharah dan hajat disertai dengan doa agar dipermudahkan Allah SWT baginya menjalankan perkara ketaatan. Wallahualam.

I think I should write about this event. Friends,you should know, I am among the one who loves attending wedding. Dunno why, my husband also query. Is not only attend weeding, eat and go back, I will always find opportunity to meet with couples, visit bilik pengantin, hantaran..macam keypochi je kan bunyinya..hahha..whatever la.. as long as I am happy by seeing all the beautiful things specially created for wedding.


Last Sat, I went to my ex-colleague wedding. She just resigned due to getting married.I would say this is Wedding of the Year from all weddings I’ve attended this year. Why.. One of it is because she is a daughter to one of well known Dato’ Seri in Penang.. So can you imagine how is ‘anak-anak orang kaya punya wedding, kan !” Everybody is thrilled to go to her wedding . She has total 6 times of ceremony, started with Majlis Berinai, Majlis akad nikah, wedding lunch ( 12pm-3pm), wedding dinner (7pm – 10pm). Both were at home. Another wedding dinner at 6star hotel in Penang next week. And the last one is the bride side.

Our dear Penang Governor and MP of Tasek Gelugor who is also ex- 2nd Finance Minister, Tan Sri Mohd Nor Yaacob is honorable guests of the day.


Beside the bridegroom is my friend, what make is more significant in this knot is she is married to a person that I will remember to the end of my life, who took care of my arwah mama for about 2 months at hospital. The bride , a Chinese convert Muslim guy , is the most nice and kind hearted medical officer and neuro specialist I ever known. Is not only me. You can ask any patient who has been treated under him, everybody will say a good thing bout him. Is not only to patient, he is nice to patient’ family .At a glance you will think he is a handsome Malay guy but actually he is Chindian. He can speak Bahasa fluently . And now after married , can I say he is Chinndianyu ? heheheh…


After demise of arwah mama in 2007, I met him back in mid-2008 in one of party held at my friend ( his wife now). Both just be a couple that time. At first, he can’t recognize me . Of course. He has been treating thousand of patients but after my friend mention my mama’ s name, then he able to recall. Actually arwah mama is a Hospital staff. And knew him even before she fall sick. That is why when I just mention arwah mama’s name, then he able to recall.

When we met at the party, he also asked about my father and brother. He is very concern.


And yesterday, besides the ‘grand and glamour’ guests, when her wife was introducing him to each of us , group of her ex-officemate , and when I was about to congrates both couple, he said “Ha..this girl I know.” , I just replied as “ Wahh..you still remember me .? I never hope that he can still recognize me . He kissed SI’s cheek.

Enjoy some picture of the day.

To both newly married couple, may you have a joyous marriage life for ever and bless with many children !!

When I first discovered about my 2nd pregnancy, beside my husband and family, the first friend got to know about it is my cubmate . Because some unintended question that lead to “Hidayah puasa penuh Ramadhan kali ni”. Then I told 2 of senior close friend and both of them agreed that don’t tell more people, let’s see whether people notice it or not. Because I am use to wear baggy attire, so will see if people can notice especially at early stage.


As of now, only one friend able to guess by looking at my tummy. Well, I would some experience lady able to know by just looking at my tummy or my B.


I have another colleague who is also expecting her 2nd child after her first son is already 5. We are quite close and always hang out for lunch together. But still she yet to know I am pregnant because with no ( little ) morning sickness, I am just like normal except eating more . We are giving more attention to her since after quite some time she pregnant again and she get to know this time is a girl ! besides, she is too buzy , active at office.Her works really make her no rest. She is at office every weekend and go back late everyday. The husband also bising but what to do..Her responsibility plus not enough manpower to cater such loads of project currently .



Only last 2 weeks, she had just lost the baby inside her womb. We are very shocked and blaming the boss and all the works that she has to do. Not sure what is the cause. Lack of rest or there was a complication inside.



I went to visit her at hospital. Alone. No one accompany me as the hospital is at mainland and I dropped by on my way back home. Actually I don’t have the courage to go and visit her alone as I am not good in consoling and comforting people especially in this situation. And I feel sorry and bit uneasy as I haven’t tell her that I am pregnant too.. But I still went there, accompany her from 6.30pm until 7.30pm visiting hour. I was more listening rather than talking as I am speechless. But Alhamdulillah, she is ok. Able to accept it and she was the one who keep talking, telling me what happen since day 1 she feel different with it.


The baby was born with force delivered after 2x induced. And she is a girl with 540gm at weight . Alhamdulillah, the funeral process went smooth. And my friend entitled for 2 months maternity leave eventhough at first according to our in-house clinic, before 7 months is 2 weeks leave. Recommendation from medical officer and her boss.


When she come back to work, I will be at 5mons pregnant InsyaAllah…and I feel sorry for not telling her earlier. My friend suggested that just inform her I only get to know about my pregnancy after her incident .. and I think I will do the same thing.



I pray hard that she will stay tough and hope that she will have next rezeki soon.And pray for myself and little one inside.

Anak Ummi Sayang..may you have a safe journey for 9months inside ummi.May Allah protect you always.

Harus saya menulis entry kali ini sebelum kita berpuasa ( ada beberapa jam lagi sebelum imsa’) dan jangan risau, tidak ada gambaq makanan yang difokuskan secara dekat untuk membuatkan anda terliur di bulan puasa ni.

Alhamdulillah, sepanjang 2 minggu sebelum berpuasa ni, ada saja jamuan dan orang belanja saya makan. Orang kita kan selalu kata, makan puas2 dekat puasa ni, nanti puasa tak boleh makan… tapi bab ibadat, kita nak tunggu Ramadhan baru nak buat ibadat banyak-banyak..di luar Ramadhan biasa2 saja…sebelum tu biasa-biasa saja kan !


Makan-makan marathon ni bermula pada


1)5 Aug 2009 (Rabu)

Hari yang saya menghadiri grooming kelas. Ada saya updatekan di sini. Mmg sedap sangat makan nak hujan pansa dengna lauk pauk ynag sedap

2) 8 Aug 2008 (Sabtu)
Hari raptai sempenan kedatangan Gabenor ke tempat kami. Kali ni kami makan apa yang akan dihidangkan masa lunch dhn Tun Yang Terutama (TYT). Kira trial la tu.


3) 10 Aug(Isnin)
Jamuan makan tengahari bersama TYT. Beriani kambing..kari ayam , daging, ayam ros, kerabu timun and kuah kacang..tak campur la pencuci mulut.Fuhhhh! Cerita pasal acara ni di sini

4) 12 Aug (Rabu)


5) 13 Aug (Khamis)
Dept makan2. Boss belanja sempena bonus baru2 ni. Lokasi PakHussin Tomyam . Menu tomyam campur,Ayam gajus, Ayam mango, kerabu pelam, Kalan ikan masin, Siakap tiga rasa ( Dilla wajib tau ni, dekat umah ja..)
6) 14 Aug (Jumaat)
Saya pulang ke kampong sebab mak-mak menakan buat kenduri baacan yassin and tahlil & sambut puasa kat rumah peninggalan arwah tok. Menu : Gulai nangka, ayam masak merah,ikan talang masin, daging masak hitam, ulam-ulaman

7) 19 Aug (Rabu)

8) 20 Aug (Khamis)
Makan besar with lunchmate..Kali ni my treat. Kami pekena Kari Kepala Ikan kat Pen Mutiara..perggghhh… kepala ikan, tinggal tadak kepala. Siakap tiga rasa and kerabu pelam

Ooo..cukupla setakat itu kisah makan-makan saya…

This will be the last entry for World Breastfeeding Week (WBW) in Penang. As promised,the last event was held in JJ Perda today organized by Hospital Bukit Mertajam collaboration with UMNO Bhgn.

I was at work this morning ( rehearsal Gabenor nak mai Isnin ni ) and afraid that I couldn't attend this event . Luckily Novia, one of MMPS member who lead us today told me that our slot is only start at 5pm not 4pm as per earlier plan.So I manged to reach JJ at 4pm just before talk by Pn. Zuraidah Pegawai Pemakanan ( if not mistaken ).

A few booths were set up at the venue. One is from Hospital Bkt Mertajam itself, 2nd we have goody bags booth ( banyak sungguh goody bags and giftaway ), we have cosmetic company doing their promotion, we have diaper booth ( got free 1 sample each), and some more that I haven't got chance to hunt.

Myself, Vasu (MMPS) and Wawa (SI.com) were bit surprise to see the crowd. I mean the crowd not that huge but the place is big and when you talk thru microfon, macam satu JJ boleh dengaq. Three of us never expect to have our sharing session in this kind of condition..Ingat ke biasa2 je.. Malu la beb...

Pn Zuraidah ended his talk after an hour. Then the mics goes to our team. Novia, the emcee for our slot talk first. Basically she introduced her self and share her BF experience . 1st speaker was Vasu... ( yang putih manis orangnya )... gubra because she afraid cannot converse in Bahasa, tapi bila mic dah dapat kat dia..macam cikgu BM pulak Vasu ni. Very interesting, informative and drawing people's attention ...She share her BF experience she faced some hassle for her 1st to latch on.How she overcome it. Her experience BF in public/on plane for long hours and many more.

2nd speaker was Wawa. Her topic is interesting. BF experience with premature baby.Her daugther Azra Damia was born at 8th month of pregnancy. How Wawa decided to give her best even her prem baby unable to direct feeding yet. She pumped the milk out consistenly and now after 6 months, Azra Damia is a healthy, strong girl.The husband must be very proud when Wawa announced which one is AzraDamia and each of the audience turns back to look at both Azra and daddy ! To Wawa's husband if you read this...congratulations. I know Azra keep consuming her Ummi's milk until now never be a great journey without her daddy's support ! This is one of example how a father can support BF... there are many other ways if u guys can figure it out ..( To abi, thanks for your supports all this while- sat lagi lupa pulak nak greet husband sendiri ..hehehe )

And the last speaker, of course la me... :) My topic was about BF mom cum career mom.Basically I share my experience pumping at office, intially how I seek my boss permission to 'runaway' from desk -15minutesx3times/day for pumping routine. How may company really care nursing mothers' need. Can read my office nursing room here . How I explain and come out with a simple way for my babysitter to understand FIFO( First Come First serve ) concept in giving out ebm to SI. ( I numbered SI's bottle from 1 -4 or 5,depends on how may bottle I supply for that day just tell the babysitter to use no.1 first , then follow by 2..3...etc. So the babysitter is not confuse which one to use first ( almaklumla babysitter SI ni pangkat nenek, takut tersalah pilih ebm, jenoh pulak nak suruh dia tengok tarikh la, time la kat botol tuu..

I also cover stock preparation during confinement, BF gadget ( pump and cooler bag ). I told the audience some of us even play kut pam susu. Depa gelak..tak pernah dengaq lagi orang main kutu pam susu...hehe. That were some of the points I cover in my sharing...

We ended our slot with Q&A. We received about 4 Qs and Novia help to answer it.(nasib ada pakar ). Not to forget variety of souvenirs, food ( nasi kandar tu..), goody bag for us to bring back.

To wrap up, everything went smooth. Walaupun kami berempat, tapi semangat tu kuat..sbbnya org2 hospital yang involve utk kumpulan sokongan ibu pun bukanlah yang muda2...so kami ni spirit of young generations gitu...hehehe..

p/s: terkilan sgt sbb takbwk kamera..so no pic la..yang dlm hp ni pun blur semacam

Since we have 3 WBW events in Penang, so please don’t get bored to read my entry. I have another 2 more events to update you.

After the 1^st event in USM, we have another one organized by Kangaroo Club, Penang Adventist Hospital. It was held at Queensbay Mall. The agenda basically about BF talk, Testimonial from BF moms, BabyWearing show, Contest : Father in Babywearing , Kids Fashion show and Cert Giving for BF mother more than a year.

The program started at 2pm at I was supposed to be there to receive the >1 year BF mom. But sad to say., due to unavoidable incident happened at home, we only managed to reach there at about 3pm. So, I miss the cert giving ceremony.Huhuhu…Luckily They still pass me the cert down stage. ( eventually dapat jugak sijil walaupun down stage ). When I arrived, there was a father wearing sling contest. Is funny to see all those daddies ‘terkial-kial” wearing a sling.

After the contest and announce the winner, then the real and correct way of babywearing show by MBW team. Variety of carriers were demonstrated on the stage. Program continues with testimonial from BF mother. I only managed to see Debz ( MMPS President) delivered her speech on her BF experience with her 2 kids playing freely on the stage. ( I was looking for battery for my camera-conk pulak masa tu )

*2 out of 3 of my BF cert*. *Debs and kids on stage*.*Abi and SI walking together*

I did not wait until end of event as I need to attend another function on the same day. It was Izzul Ziyyad’s 1^st Birthday Celebration ! We rushed to Sg Ara as the party started at 2, But already inform Ernie a.k.a AnasFadilah that we gonna be late. Confidently, I navigated abi the location but to my surprise Balai Raya Sg Ara that mention by the host is empty…nobody there. Mula la gelabah takut2 silap date.

I don’t have Erni’s hp #, I tried to call one of my friend asking her “ ada lagi ka Balai raya kat Sg Ara ni. She directed me to the correct venue. Is Balai Raya Sg Ara, Kampung Baru. Fortunate enough, we found it ! ( Penang ni tak besaq mana..sesat pun at last boleh jumpa jugak )

Happening ! The only word that best describe Ziyyad Birthday party.. Punya la ramai budak2..and by the time we reach there. The kids are having fun with games….and Erni’s FIL ( Tokwan Hassan ) is very talented to handle the game..At last I met AnasFadilah, the famous NursingCover maker – sungguh comel, muka awet muda..memang muda pun mak budak sorang ni…

We enjoyed bihun sup, pulut kuning & kari ayam, kuih muih and fruits. SI kind of shocked ..too many kids playing happily around. At first, SI malu2..but then she knew how to enjoy herself even the kids tak berapa layan dia sbb depa dah besaq… Look at her in the picture below..sampai terduduk kat lantai syok tengok orang main.

Perut kenyang and SI dapat belon, we made a move. Thanks AnasFadillah and family for a great treat and Happy Birthday dear Ziyyad! Hope you like the gift from SI.

*Tuan rumah AnasFadila ( lady in black)*.*Happening party*.

Wait for my next BF event entry next week. Hang on here soon.!

Akhirnya hajat Elly untuk bertemu denganku tercapai jua….heheheh. perasan sungguh macam glamer sangat..tapi diri ini betul2 terharu bila Elly asyik bersungguh-sunnguh ajak kami geng m.com versi utara untuk berjumpa…

Seingat saya , jemputan ni yang kali ke-3 dari Elly. First masa nak buat gath kat Batu Ferringhi, tak jadi..2nd open house umah Kak Ira, Yul kat Kulim ari jumaat, saya balik keja lewat tambahan jem atas bridge, tak p jugak..dan jemputan kali ni..tak dapat nak tolak sebab memang nak sangat jumpa depa2 ni.. muka2 depa ni semua familiar dari zaman ada fotopage sampai ke blog..depa rajin menempek gambaq..so memang boleh kenai yang mana satu Ely, Syafa, Kak Ira, Neena..tapi saya ni…kalau selisih bahu dengan Elly pun tak tentu dia kenai ni la wijdan …

Tapi akhirnya, dengan izin Allah..kami bertemu juga di kenduri sepupu Sya Ahad lepas.
Saya mengheret SI memandangkan abi tak dapat join. Dan Syafa menyambut kami dengan riuh sekali….Thanks Sya selaku tuan rumah yang melayan kami dengan baik sekali, lauk pauk sungguh sedap sbb hidangan pengantin. goody bags sampai 2

Dan utk Elly, Kak Ira, Nina...best sgt dapat jumpa hangpa.. len kali insyaAllah, ada kelapangan , kita jumpa lagi..

Ni gambaq kenangan kami kat sana.. pssttt..saya tengah meriba Shukrina..leh cam kot no...

KakSue dearie,

After I read a poem written in your blog today, straight away I remember this poem. It was given to me by a very close friend about 7 years ago and it is still posted at my cubicle until today. Whenever I feel down or demotivated , I will recite this. I am happy to share it with you and all my dear friends.

Monday afternoon, my colleagues and I pay a visit to our ex-colleague who just came back from umrah.

My ex-colleague called it Kak A actually was on medical board and discontinue her service due to health problem. She was detected to have a breast cancer stage 4 at late 2006 and had gone thru an operation to remove one of her B. Mid-2007, she came back working as normal . I’d say she is a very strong and high motivation lady. As we know, cancer patient must have high motivation and ‘kuat semangat’ for them to survive. Of course ajal maut is Allah’s direction but as a human, what we can do is to usaha, doa and tawakal.

We were shocked with another news end of 2007 where the cancer cell spreaded to her brain. And this time is really a hard time for her and the family. She kind of lost her memory and on and off had ‘kancing gigi’. And now she likes a baby that need help to walk, to eat. But she able to talk slowly but seems like she forgot lots of things.

We regularly visit to know her progress and help to recall her memory. Sometimes, she needs her ex-officemate to chit chat with her so that she would remember she worked before and talked about office related stuff after spending so much time with family

She like a sister to me that always advise and guide me in the first year of my working journey. Is not only about work, she shares her experience in life, how she gone thru life from small until now, having a happy family and blessed with 3 kids. She is a very cheerful person,. Always laughing and positive. She is very good at cooking and sewing. And good at decorating house . She always looks pretty and presentable at any time. I admire her motherly when she with her family and her leadership when she is at work.

I once thought that she is very lucky married to a rich guy that can pampered her with material. She likes jewelry and have loads of it. She build a big nice bungalow.When I asked her bout this she said life is not like a bed of roses at the beginning. His husband is nobody at first. Marrying her when he was only a clerk while Kak A holding a degree. Her earning is even higher than the husband. Then the husband further study taking a degree and continue with master. During the husband was studying, she sacrificed a lot. Renting a small house with only one room . I would say she sacrifice in order to support the husband study and growing kids.

And the bungalow house they have now is sharing with the husband but her share is the biggest. I can still remember her words to me

“Bukan kawin2, dok umah besaq macam ni..simpan duit lama baru leh merasa dok macam ni. Kak A pulun simpan duit, dengan husband dok mengaji, anak lagi.Mula2 pakai keta 2^nd hand ja”

And today looking at her pale , weak face, skinny body.I just cannot stand. I use to see her everyday full of joyousness. She is very lucky having a loving husband , kids and both her family and in-laws. I can see the sincerity in her husband’s eye taking care of a sick wife that sacrifice a lot during her healthy day. Now is time for the husband to ‘pay’. The kids seems to understand. But Kak A did told me the elder daughter who turn 16 this year cried non-stop when she first discover about her mother breast cancer. She managed to get 8A’s in last PMR even though looking after her mother. I see her grow matured compare to other 16 years-old cheeky girl

And the 12 year-old and 7 year-old son, I yet to deeply read their mind/heart. I believe they started to understand their mother’s condition.

Every time coming back from visiting her, I always wondering and thinking. We never knows what gonna happen in future. If I were to be at Kak A’s place, I don’t know what to say , at time your are doing well in your career, living happily with your husband and kids. Murah rezeki and when Allah want it to be ‘ Kun fayakun’. Nobody can stop it.

Bayangkan jika kita terlalu tumpu kepada urusan duniawi’ and KIV ‘urusan ukhrawi’. Kalau tak KIV pun, kita still buat bekalan ukt akhirat , adakah kita bersungguh2 melakukannya sebagaimana kita bersungguh2 ‘mengejar’ apa yang manusia perlu ada di dunia yang fana ini. Takut utk difikirkan tapi kita tak buleh tidak untuk membiarkan kerana di ‘sana’ adalah kekal dan pasti Kita tidak tahu berapa lama masa yang kita ada .

Am sure we have been listening to “ Bekerja mencari rezeki seperti hendak hidup bertahun2 lagi, beribadat seperti kamu akan mati keesokkan hari.”

Dengarlah wahai hati …

At last, our plan comes true. SI.com Northern Gathering 2009 was held on May 16,209 at Youth Park ( Taman Belia ) from 9 am -1pm (after 2 round of postponement since March)

I was very busy since early morning preparing 3 types of sandwiches ( tuna,sardine and egg ) and dressed up Shukrina . Doing all these alone as abi has to work that day.Luckily my brother is here to help out.

We headed to island at about 8.15am and reached the park at 9am. But due to my last visit there was about 10 years ago, I felt like 1^st time going there. Do not exactly where's the picnic location and have to called KakShida few times. I met Wawa wif her husband and little Azra Damia. ( depa pun tersesat). Give them a ride because we were almost at the exit and have to go out again because is a one way road.

Finally we met the group.Few family already arrived. We moved to new location which provide more shade afraid later on by 10 or 11 am we feel the hot even under the trees .

I met new friends there

Rozy with babyHadiff( all the way from Parit Buntaq)

Shida with Anis ( not soo new friend.hihi)

Kak Neeza with 4 active kids

Sue ( we were in same hostel before.patutla mcm familiar )

MamaLIn with babySalihin

Ain with babyNajla

Maziah with tough cute Daryn Nafeesa ( I luv the name )

Aishah with Hadif Syahmi and his brother (lupa nama )

Wawa with baby Azra Damia

Kikie (shikin) with Abd Rahman Amrullah

Hana (IbuFArish) with Farish la.. ( from Aloq Staq nun )

Nina with Arif ZAim ( 2^nd time meeting her )

We started the program with talk by KakShida on CD and BabyWearing. Since I’ve started to practice with both of it, kind of not paying attention to her ( Sorry sis). I was dragged into conversation t with Maziah’s mom. Mokcik from Klate and playing with Maziah's daughther Daryn Nafeesa. She was a cute , tough girl survive from her premie baby , 850gm wt at birth and now already 1 year 1 month. Daryn was so friendly to everyone and sit on my lap as if we know each other so long… (Time tu la Shukrina jelous tak buleh tengok baby lain dok kat ummi dia) .Look at pic when Shukrina kissed Daryn (tanda berdamai :) )

Next, we had Dr. Balkees on board to discuss about BF. Is more informal and leisure talk. More interaction and Q&A session. Mommies grabbed opportunity to ask Dr. Balkees on BF concerns and issue. She prepared a handout for us too ! Lots of guides and advises from Dr. Balkees

Program continued with talk on Infant Chocking by AbiFarish ( from Hosp Sultanah Bahiyah). He is a good speaker indeed. We also got chance to practice it ( dengan gaya yang relax, padahal kalau betui2 anak tercekik, mau panic taktau buat apa)

The food is free flowing. We enjoyed eating while listening to talk . Sooo much food . Myself prepared sandwich,Rozy ( cokelat cake),Sue (batik cake),Ain ( nasi lomak ), Lin ( donat&cucuq badak), Hana ( Rojak buah, pudding ), fruit juices, fruits ( special timun (honey dew) from Kelantan brought by Maziah and much more, ( tak ingat sapa bawak apa , banyak sgt )

Throughout the end of session, we have a lucky draw. Prizes for adult and tukar2 hadiah for baby as well.

Shukrina got a teddy bear from Daryn, Thnks Daryn and mummy Maziah ! Hope Daryn also like present from Shukrina ( anak-anak kami tukar sesame sendiri)

Lastly, we had a photography session. Thank you gentlemen yg tolong amik gambaq . U can see most of the kids were half naked due to hot weather. Shukrina only wear her overall while inner blouse has been taken out earlier

We ended up the session with continue eating and tapau some home . While some other kids terjun kolam.Poor Shukrina abi was not around. So umi dare not bring her near to the pool

I would like to take this opportunity to express my high appreciation to all mommies involved . Is really a great gathering . Thanks for the memorable time we spent together and the friendship that we built . Hope one day we can meet again in next program.

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