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Wednesday, November 4, 2009

6months tenure in her womb

When I first discovered about my 2nd pregnancy, beside my husband and family, the first friend got to know about it is my cubmate . Because some unintended question that lead to “Hidayah puasa penuh Ramadhan kali ni”. Then I told 2 of senior close friend and both of them agreed that don’t tell more people, let’s see whether people notice it or not. Because I am use to wear baggy attire, so will see if people can notice especially at early stage.


As of now, only one friend able to guess by looking at my tummy. Well, I would some experience lady able to know by just looking at my tummy or my B.


I have another colleague who is also expecting her 2nd child after her first son is already 5. We are quite close and always hang out for lunch together. But still she yet to know I am pregnant because with no ( little ) morning sickness, I am just like normal except eating more . We are giving more attention to her since after quite some time she pregnant again and she get to know this time is a girl ! besides, she is too buzy , active at office.Her works really make her no rest. She is at office every weekend and go back late everyday. The husband also bising but what to do..Her responsibility plus not enough manpower to cater such loads of project currently .



Only last 2 weeks, she had just lost the baby inside her womb. We are very shocked and blaming the boss and all the works that she has to do. Not sure what is the cause. Lack of rest or there was a complication inside.



I went to visit her at hospital. Alone. No one accompany me as the hospital is at mainland and I dropped by on my way back home. Actually I don’t have the courage to go and visit her alone as I am not good in consoling and comforting people especially in this situation. And I feel sorry and bit uneasy as I haven’t tell her that I am pregnant too.. But I still went there, accompany her from 6.30pm until 7.30pm visiting hour. I was more listening rather than talking as I am speechless. But Alhamdulillah, she is ok. Able to accept it and she was the one who keep talking, telling me what happen since day 1 she feel different with it.


The baby was born with force delivered after 2x induced. And she is a girl with 540gm at weight . Alhamdulillah, the funeral process went smooth. And my friend entitled for 2 months maternity leave eventhough at first according to our in-house clinic, before 7 months is 2 weeks leave. Recommendation from medical officer and her boss.


When she come back to work, I will be at 5mons pregnant InsyaAllah…and I feel sorry for not telling her earlier. My friend suggested that just inform her I only get to know about my pregnancy after her incident .. and I think I will do the same thing.



I pray hard that she will stay tough and hope that she will have next rezeki soon.And pray for myself and little one inside.

Anak Ummi Sayang..may you have a safe journey for 9months inside ummi.May Allah protect you always.

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Nadiah Sidek said...

takziah buat kwn dayah tu. smg dayah & baby sihat & selamat smpai saat bersalin nnt..ameen..

Lady Qay said...

insyAllah hang dan bby slmt....
risau adalh sumtg yang natural bila prgnnt...sume ibu nak anak yang sht dan perfect..apa yang kita boleh buat, doa, usha yang tbaik, jg mkn, jg diri etc n last tawakal..

dayah..aku nk blik ry hji lm ni...jpm jmpa???

Dayah said...

Nadiah...bila dengaq ja brita anak dia meninggal dlm perut, terus dayah jadi takut...doa2kanlah semua selaamt..mmg kita adapglmn anak 1st dulu, tapi setiap kehamilan tu berbeza

Qay
jom..insyaAllah...aku balik pendang dulu...

Mama-Miya a.k.a Jedi Hopeful said...

another few more months to go..take care..doa2 everything will be ok..

nasz said...

wijdan!!! tahniah, tahniah, tahniah... ya Allah, lama tak lawat blog ni, tiba2 tau dah pegnan. tahniah lg!! ape2 pon, jaga diri, jaga kesihatan ye. insyaallah, selamat...

salam takziah buat kwn wijdan tu. insyaallah ada rezeki lg..

Dayah said...

mama-miya...thx..

Nas..
terlepas LRT nampaknya...hehhe..thx

fazilzura said...

semoga dayah selamat ngndung & banak yek..

** emm kes anak mati dlm perut, adik ipar ku dh 3 kali... sian dia.. tp sume tu bkn kite leh plan2 ye dak.. kdng2 tu ada kesilapan kite, and jgk nk nguji kite...

Rozy said...

tahniah dayah..take care naa...
jangan keja teruk2 sangat...

mamashasha said...

sian kat that lady dayah....itulah kadang bile kiter too bz kita terpaksa melupakan our own needs taw...aku doakan ko & bb sihat& selamat smpi bersalin,melahirkan & sehingga bb beso...amin itulah dayahh ko tu selim lagi la tak nampak kan..