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Monday, July 27, 2009

Buzy Bee

I am the busy mother bee this 2 weeks !! Is quite some time I do not update any new entry and only able to bloghop during weekend. Apologize to my dear friends if there is no babble from me on your page .


What make me so buzy.. ( Bunyi sibok mengalahkan PM.) . The foremost reason is because SI’s abi is not around. So I have to handle everything by myself ( again bunyi macam handle byk keja) . Doing housechores, cooking, fetching SI from babysitter’s house . The most hardship that I have to face is when fetching her back from babysitter’s house.

Normally, abi is the one who fetch her. While me rushing back home to cook. With abi is not around, I have to take it up. And SI is growing wise and wiser. ( Ummi nak bebel sikit ni ) Sekarang dah pandai takmau balik…jenoh nak pujuk… kekadang ummi terawal SI tak mandi lagi..dok p jalan2, main dengan anak jiran..kadang2 tengah tidor…. Tanak pakai diaper lepas mandi…itu semua ragam anak yang tengah membesar.. memang menguiji kesabaran sungguh
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Then I know the challenge that faced by abi everyday.That is why both of them come home late But abi and ummi is different. Ummi has to rush back home cooking. And dinner has to be ready before maghrib . Other house chore can be done with SI except cooking…memang surrender. Everysince ummi has to fetch her back, sometimes we reached after 7 and ummi skip cooking dinner.As a result, paksu has to buy dinner .

And now since she started to talk ..she always mention t*t*k when she want nenen..ayoo.yoo..nak tidor t*t*k, bagun pagi t*t*k… am not sure from where she got the words. I knew that the babysitter taught her about parts of body. She know all parts including t*t*k…now she direct feeding frequency is increase..ait, ingat ka semakin hampir nak wean off dah, tapi makin laju…

Now I am entering a phase of facing a smart & active toddler. She is cheeky though. I can sense the difficulty when both of us go for outing. I thought she is still small baby . Quietly behave. Now..jenoh kepong., jenoh ajak balik, jenoh tegur jangan pegang, usik barang……

All these are reason for a smile on my face when I reflect it back yet sometimes she drive me mad and exhausted. My tiredness gone when look at her face. She keep silence when I am mad, she persuade and wipe my tears me when I cry and laugh when I am happy

Tu baru anak sorang.. pun rasa tunggang langgang dah .Macamna anak 2-3 noo..?? Now I understand and appreciate the life of a mother. Is not easy . I pray hard for Allah to grant me with big patience in nurturing my kids and in my role as a mother and wife.

I am handicap without abi. Abi..cepatla balik… We both miss u.

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Lady Qay said...

mmg pnt bila nk kn buat semua sorg2 kn...kdg2 br realize knpa Allah jdkan utk stiap ank tu dua ibu dan bapa..bru boleh sling lgkap melngkapi...

aku pun dah start trasa kecerdikan ank aku sorg tuhhh..pnt nyerrr nk lynn...

fazilzura said...

heheeh .. 1 sorg pun kabut cmner nak 2-3 and terus nye yek ..
tp kalau ikut kan , nape org dulu2 leh walau pun diorg keje..
itu ler di nama kan rezeki.. dh ngndug ( ingt nk ngndg tu senang ker).. pehtu banak (ingt banak x susah ke) .. pehtu ada anak ( ingt nak jaga senang ).. but sume tu kite tetap jgk akan alami kan .. walau pun susah.. tp bile kite pk2, kalau kite leh didik anak2 kite dgn baik.. diorg mmbesar dgn baik.. insyallah sume itu berbaloi2 ( bak kata AMY search)

el said...

hahahahah..nak tetek nak tetek..
haa xpelah dayah...SI nk membesar tu..bgs la dia cm tu...
mmg betul anak sorang cam 10 org jaga kan..kahhhhh

Dayah @ Real Ummu said...

Qay..MZR pun dah mula tunjuk ketereannya..??


Zura..yelah..mcmne la hajat nak beranak ramai nih...

El,
anak sorang gandaan 10..heheh .hang anak 2 gandaan 20 la kot..

Hanz Jamaludin said...

biasalah tu, bila anak sorang, dia-lah segalanya..i pun pernah lalui cam u ni..masuk anak 2 dah kira 'mature' sikit so kira ada 'cool' sikitlah, kalau x sikit2 melatah, ha,ha..

biarlah si-comel nenen lagi...nanti dia wean off sendiri..

mamashasha said...

wijd...aku paham situasi hang...hari2 mcm tu lah betapa kalutnya aku...pasal tu kekadang aku stress...dah le penat keje..balik ambik shasha jln jam lagi...sampai umah,,dok sat main2 ngan shasha & borak ngan hubby dah masuk dapur pulak....fuhhhhhhhh penat kan...

Sue.Aleen said...

Abi pi mana? Adoi la... memacam la ragam budak baru nak naik... pandai tunjuk protes la plak tu... Tu baru sorang Dayah oii... belum masuk 2-3 dan seterusnya... budak la ni makin hari makin cerdik.. toi dak?

Farah said...

hahaha eii tak malu la awak SI mintak ummi t*t*k hari2..aah kan ni baru anak sorg dah tak tentu arah di buatnye..

Dayah @ Real Ummu said...

Hanz..yes, bila anak sorg, dia la segalanya..harap2 nanti mature cam Hanz jugak ye..

Bed..terima kasih krena memahamiku.tambahan hang tu boss lagi kalut la..

Dayah @ Real Ummu said...

kaksue..taktau la..ni baru sorang..dah pandai itu ini..

Farah..itule setakat ni berjaya control di depan public..nasib la SI tak jerit kuat2 nak t*t*k...!!

ummuabdullahsyaakir said...

Salam kak,first time komen ni hehe.Hope akk n family sht selalu

Mmg budak nk membesar ni byk ragamkn kak.Insya Allah klu mmg rezeki ank ramai,mudah2han ada jln kemudahn yg Allah bagi nnt.

c a b b i e n a said...

salam dayah...

bb ni makin besar mkin nk t*t*k slalu... smla dgn ank sy...
kalu bole 24jm nk bergantung...
tp nassib baik anak sy da tuka, dr t*t*k ke memek... elok skit bunyinya...
:)

Dayah @ Real Ummu said...

salam ummiabdullahsyaakir..
sila2..first komen amat dialu2kan..terima aksih atas ingatan..moga segalanya dipermudhakan Allah..

cabiena
sama ya anak kita...heheheh...mungkin sbb dia rasa dah taklama lagi nak wean kot..sebab tu dia pulun sungguh2...ni dok tgh train SI tukar terms lani..kkdg ok..kkdg dia lupa..